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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 258759" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>My 27 year old son lives under our roof. He comes and goes as he pleases but he pays us rent and also kicks in for groceries. He pays for his own car and all expenses associated with it. He does his own laundry and prepares his own meals if he is not home when we eat. His room is His room. I do not enter it unless asked to and I do not clean it. That is left up to him and he isn't very good about it but I keep the door closed so I don't see the mess. I give him plenty of warning when we are going to have company. It is his choice to clean it or not. If I need to move him into a smaller room for a weekend due to overnight guests (not often but it happens since my family all live in other states) then I do all the cleaning and laundering of the linens. Otherwise it is entirely his responsibility. Other than his room and his dishes and laundry there are no other chores expected of him. At one point we had a problem with him drinking our beer and wine but we told him that he wasnot allowed to and that stopped. I think he though of it as in the same catagory as food. -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 258759, member: 2315"] My 27 year old son lives under our roof. He comes and goes as he pleases but he pays us rent and also kicks in for groceries. He pays for his own car and all expenses associated with it. He does his own laundry and prepares his own meals if he is not home when we eat. His room is His room. I do not enter it unless asked to and I do not clean it. That is left up to him and he isn't very good about it but I keep the door closed so I don't see the mess. I give him plenty of warning when we are going to have company. It is his choice to clean it or not. If I need to move him into a smaller room for a weekend due to overnight guests (not often but it happens since my family all live in other states) then I do all the cleaning and laundering of the linens. Otherwise it is entirely his responsibility. Other than his room and his dishes and laundry there are no other chores expected of him. At one point we had a problem with him drinking our beer and wine but we told him that he wasnot allowed to and that stopped. I think he though of it as in the same catagory as food. -RM [/QUOTE]
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