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It sounds like mom has her hands full. Maybe you could check in your area to see if they have a birth to 3 screening program. Then provide the mom with the information. They have alot of supportive programs they can connect themt to if they qualify. Some communities also support pre-k programs starting at age 3 through the school district. Ours was wonderful. My son (Asperberger's) attended which led us to getting the support we needed in school.