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<blockquote data-quote="sweetgfg" data-source="post: 364259"><p>UPDATE... but first let me answer this question... I'm in southern California...</p><p></p><p>The principal called me Friday morning before school started.. she said she had spoken to VP and that indeed my difficult child had been in the office all day on Thursday but that they had asked difficult child if she wanted to go to math class and she refused??? Principal also said a driend of difficult child was allowed to spend time with difficult child while she was in the office... I asked her why no one notified me she apologized for that but she had no answer and VP was again not available to answer this question... She then reminded me we were to meet Monday just and only to speak about how she COULD HAVE SUSPENDED difficult child she stressed out that this would be all we would be talking about....She then said difficult child would be in regular school day...</p><p></p><p>Before bringing difficult child to school I asked her if she had been asked to go to math she said NO but her friend did come in to keep her company for a bit....</p><p></p><p>I then drove to school district (not Los Angeles) to file a complain... The superintendant and the assistant superintendant happened to be there they took my written complain then asked me to tell it to them... I did when I was done they spoke to each other as if i wasn't there they said stuff like well this principal is so caring she has a big heart she has over 25 yrs of experience in Special Education. I bet last night she was working late trying to catch up since she had an emergency and the VP is only a week new and she is just wonderful ... but we will talk to them ... we are just happy principal did call you this morning and she is trying to end this year in a positive note... we will talk to her though... I left the office feeling emotionally raped...</p><p></p><p>Then I get a call from difficult child's teacher saying that difficult child took a ball that a boy brought form home and difficult child lost it and should replace it and would be getting consequences... I asked teacher what was the policy on bringing toys from home because I thought it was not allowed she said that students were allowed because of the budget cuts the kids could bring balls to play with at school....I told teacher I would talk to difficult child and get back to her...</p><p></p><p>I called a recess supervisor that I know and she loves difficult child well she happened to be the one handling the incident she said the boy did bring a small ball that could easily fit in your hand and be concealed a group of kids were palying with it throwing kicking etc. when difficult child joined in they all told her no and chased her she dropped the ball it was lost the bell rang the supervior told the boy these toys were not allowed on campus for the same reason they are not responsible if it get lost and the 5th graders had been warned twice this year... </p><p>the bell rang and everyone went to class then supervisor notice difficult child searching the playground ... apparantly the kids told the teacher (who didn't witness the incident) and she sent difficult child out to look for the ball.... Now what if difficult child had not done so and decided to run off elsewhere she would have been in bigger problems... and why is teacher taking sides???? and thenteacher lied to me about the policy of bringing toys to school??? Now I'm wondering if Thursday the teacher might have been the one Not to want difficult child in class...I am so emotionally drained now I have another battle....</p><p></p><p>difficult child is 11yrs old Beautiful Princess</p><p>5th grade </p><p>diagnosed ODD</p><p>I suspect autism or AS</p><p>Me 39</p><p>DH40</p><p>easy child wonderful 13 yr old Boy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sweetgfg, post: 364259"] UPDATE... but first let me answer this question... I'm in southern California... The principal called me Friday morning before school started.. she said she had spoken to VP and that indeed my difficult child had been in the office all day on Thursday but that they had asked difficult child if she wanted to go to math class and she refused??? Principal also said a driend of difficult child was allowed to spend time with difficult child while she was in the office... I asked her why no one notified me she apologized for that but she had no answer and VP was again not available to answer this question... She then reminded me we were to meet Monday just and only to speak about how she COULD HAVE SUSPENDED difficult child she stressed out that this would be all we would be talking about....She then said difficult child would be in regular school day... Before bringing difficult child to school I asked her if she had been asked to go to math she said NO but her friend did come in to keep her company for a bit.... I then drove to school district (not Los Angeles) to file a complain... The superintendant and the assistant superintendant happened to be there they took my written complain then asked me to tell it to them... I did when I was done they spoke to each other as if i wasn't there they said stuff like well this principal is so caring she has a big heart she has over 25 yrs of experience in Special Education. I bet last night she was working late trying to catch up since she had an emergency and the VP is only a week new and she is just wonderful ... but we will talk to them ... we are just happy principal did call you this morning and she is trying to end this year in a positive note... we will talk to her though... I left the office feeling emotionally raped... Then I get a call from difficult child's teacher saying that difficult child took a ball that a boy brought form home and difficult child lost it and should replace it and would be getting consequences... I asked teacher what was the policy on bringing toys from home because I thought it was not allowed she said that students were allowed because of the budget cuts the kids could bring balls to play with at school....I told teacher I would talk to difficult child and get back to her... I called a recess supervisor that I know and she loves difficult child well she happened to be the one handling the incident she said the boy did bring a small ball that could easily fit in your hand and be concealed a group of kids were palying with it throwing kicking etc. when difficult child joined in they all told her no and chased her she dropped the ball it was lost the bell rang the supervior told the boy these toys were not allowed on campus for the same reason they are not responsible if it get lost and the 5th graders had been warned twice this year... the bell rang and everyone went to class then supervisor notice difficult child searching the playground ... apparantly the kids told the teacher (who didn't witness the incident) and she sent difficult child out to look for the ball.... Now what if difficult child had not done so and decided to run off elsewhere she would have been in bigger problems... and why is teacher taking sides???? and thenteacher lied to me about the policy of bringing toys to school??? Now I'm wondering if Thursday the teacher might have been the one Not to want difficult child in class...I am so emotionally drained now I have another battle.... difficult child is 11yrs old Beautiful Princess 5th grade diagnosed ODD I suspect autism or AS Me 39 DH40 easy child wonderful 13 yr old Boy [/QUOTE]
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