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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 510401" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>I am so happy for you and her that she did admit herself, I was scared just reading your post. I know you have to be exhausted. It's an age where we don't think about the future-only that we have problems that are too much for our inexperienced lives to handle and we feel like we will have them forever. I was in an abusive marriage and they can completely make you feel worthless!!! so hopefully it was the relationship and he is gone and she can get on with her life - with help of course.</p><p></p><p>My sister told me that after her 22yo husband (she was 20) walked out of the hospital and never returned when they were told the baby was Downes, threw her into a depression and she thought suicide was the only way out. I remember also thinking of suicide in my 20's. It is just a hard time for many and they feel like there is no way out.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion she is making plans for the future - also a very good sign was that she reached out to you. Sounds like she wants help and she will be honest and cooperate with the counselors. Another positive was that she told of the attempt.</p><p></p><p>Getting counseling is not held against you like it was 20 years ago - we had people on the 'do not promote list' because of mental and emotional instability problems going through things like a divorce, so sad they could not get help without fearing they would lose their jobs.</p><p>(((blessings to you and yours)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 510401, member: 13558"] I am so happy for you and her that she did admit herself, I was scared just reading your post. I know you have to be exhausted. It's an age where we don't think about the future-only that we have problems that are too much for our inexperienced lives to handle and we feel like we will have them forever. I was in an abusive marriage and they can completely make you feel worthless!!! so hopefully it was the relationship and he is gone and she can get on with her life - with help of course. My sister told me that after her 22yo husband (she was 20) walked out of the hospital and never returned when they were told the baby was Downes, threw her into a depression and she thought suicide was the only way out. I remember also thinking of suicide in my 20's. It is just a hard time for many and they feel like there is no way out. in my opinion she is making plans for the future - also a very good sign was that she reached out to you. Sounds like she wants help and she will be honest and cooperate with the counselors. Another positive was that she told of the attempt. Getting counseling is not held against you like it was 20 years ago - we had people on the 'do not promote list' because of mental and emotional instability problems going through things like a divorce, so sad they could not get help without fearing they would lose their jobs. (((blessings to you and yours))) [/QUOTE]
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