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<blockquote data-quote="Dixies_fire" data-source="post: 593595" data-attributes="member: 16184"><p>All I can say as far as Cps goes.... It's a joke. My husband's wife is a meth addict has had the kids taken away for having a nasty house, they didn't notify the father. Two years goes by and she is arrested for making a meth lab in her basement kids are removed she didn't go to jail they didn't notify the father. We found out and showed up 2000 miles away at court before hubs break down. Hubs has break down and we are disqualified from custody hearing which we dropped it because of the drama here and in the best interest of the kids because we didn't want to bring them into bad situation which even saying is better then living with a meth addict. There are still 2 other family members who want custody of the children and they were going to give her custody back. She's been picked up for prostitution TWICE and now we are going to see if se gets custody back my point is they have known she was a drug user for 3 years since the kids were picked up the first time they never considered placing them permanently away at that time. They keep trying to put her back with them when all the children our two plus her two others have developmental delays from not being parented.</p><p></p><p>I have dealt with Cps twice now once when boyo was 3 months old and once when hubs had break down. Boyo was hospitalized for his extreme emaciation after a month of calling nurse line and saying he was spitting up and the doctor office calling and canceling appointments which I had the paperwork for they tried to say we weren't feeding him and they sent Cps after us. I filed a claim of malpractice with my insurance company and would of gone further then that had I had the financial ability to. Long story short my mother had to come stay with us for a month so they would not remove him, even though we had proof he was sick and his doctor was refusing to see him and we took him to the hospital! Was a 6 month long fiasco.</p><p></p><p>Hubs has break down and Cps gets involved because of the police paramedics and god and everyone else they opened investigation and it was closed 30 days later. They never spoke with hubs docs he could very well be dangerous but they wouldn't know, but they had the power to say if he could stay with us or not. </p><p></p><p>Point being seems like they get it wrong all the time and they aren't thorough all the cases were in different states. The folks who are drug addicts get to keep their kids and the ones who have issues don't get support and the ones who are genuinely good people get treated like criminals and threatened for 6 months.</p><p></p><p>I have no idea how you would word that or what you take out of this mess but something should be said. They may not have resources but actually giving a **** what happens might be a good idea.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dixies_fire, post: 593595, member: 16184"] All I can say as far as Cps goes.... It's a joke. My husband's wife is a meth addict has had the kids taken away for having a nasty house, they didn't notify the father. Two years goes by and she is arrested for making a meth lab in her basement kids are removed she didn't go to jail they didn't notify the father. We found out and showed up 2000 miles away at court before hubs break down. Hubs has break down and we are disqualified from custody hearing which we dropped it because of the drama here and in the best interest of the kids because we didn't want to bring them into bad situation which even saying is better then living with a meth addict. There are still 2 other family members who want custody of the children and they were going to give her custody back. She's been picked up for prostitution TWICE and now we are going to see if se gets custody back my point is they have known she was a drug user for 3 years since the kids were picked up the first time they never considered placing them permanently away at that time. They keep trying to put her back with them when all the children our two plus her two others have developmental delays from not being parented. I have dealt with Cps twice now once when boyo was 3 months old and once when hubs had break down. Boyo was hospitalized for his extreme emaciation after a month of calling nurse line and saying he was spitting up and the doctor office calling and canceling appointments which I had the paperwork for they tried to say we weren't feeding him and they sent Cps after us. I filed a claim of malpractice with my insurance company and would of gone further then that had I had the financial ability to. Long story short my mother had to come stay with us for a month so they would not remove him, even though we had proof he was sick and his doctor was refusing to see him and we took him to the hospital! Was a 6 month long fiasco. Hubs has break down and Cps gets involved because of the police paramedics and god and everyone else they opened investigation and it was closed 30 days later. They never spoke with hubs docs he could very well be dangerous but they wouldn't know, but they had the power to say if he could stay with us or not. Point being seems like they get it wrong all the time and they aren't thorough all the cases were in different states. The folks who are drug addicts get to keep their kids and the ones who have issues don't get support and the ones who are genuinely good people get treated like criminals and threatened for 6 months. I have no idea how you would word that or what you take out of this mess but something should be said. They may not have resources but actually giving a **** what happens might be a good idea. [/QUOTE]
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