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Hi Suz,

I think you are right and it is very painful.  I feel very used.  I wish she could realize that we would be happy to help her if she would just be honest and upfront about what she needs and if we could be sure we weren't also helping her boyfriend.  We even discussed this today--I told her that we think boyfriend sees us as "rich" and tries to get money from us through her.  She agreed that he did used to do that but now she has told him not to ask her to ask us for money.  She is really great at saying what she thinks I want to hear--I've never known anyone who could lie so convincingly!!  I am so glad she no longer lives with us--will keep my guard up.

Thanks,

Jane