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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 653515" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi Weary,</p><p> </p><p>Bottom line you have to do what you are most comfortable with, what you can live with. Try not to base your decision solely on the money aspect. You did what you felt was right at the time by posting bond, you've learned alot since then. Consider it an expesive lesson. (I've had many)</p><p> </p><p>I know it's easy to say "don't worry" but we're moms and it can be hard not to. [USER=17542]@Childofmine[/USER] has some very good advice about not worrying and to just lean into it, to wait, to breathe. I love the line about "worry is a fast getaway on a wooden horse"</p><p> </p><p>She is an adult and wants to be treated like one even though she may not act like one. The consequences to her actions are hers alone. She will either learn from them or not, that is her choice. This is where we as parents also have a choice, to accept their choice to live their lives they want to and move on with our own lives, or to continue to worry and obsess about them and allow our lives to become stagnant.</p><p> </p><p>I will be keeping good thoughts for you on Wed.</p><p> </p><p>((HUGS)) to you.................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 653515, member: 18516"] Hi Weary, Bottom line you have to do what you are most comfortable with, what you can live with. Try not to base your decision solely on the money aspect. You did what you felt was right at the time by posting bond, you've learned alot since then. Consider it an expesive lesson. (I've had many) I know it's easy to say "don't worry" but we're moms and it can be hard not to. [USER=17542]@Childofmine[/USER] has some very good advice about not worrying and to just lean into it, to wait, to breathe. I love the line about "worry is a fast getaway on a wooden horse" She is an adult and wants to be treated like one even though she may not act like one. The consequences to her actions are hers alone. She will either learn from them or not, that is her choice. This is where we as parents also have a choice, to accept their choice to live their lives they want to and move on with our own lives, or to continue to worry and obsess about them and allow our lives to become stagnant. I will be keeping good thoughts for you on Wed. ((HUGS)) to you................. [/QUOTE]
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