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<blockquote data-quote="Bean" data-source="post: 376366" data-attributes="member: 8620"><p>Thank you. I think I just need to hear that.</p><p></p><p>Yes, I've been to AlAnon and I've suggested my mom do the same -- even one I'm not attending. Or go to counseling (she's been in the thick of this whole situation). Even for advice on dealing with me, as we all have our own experiences in a situation like this.</p><p></p><p>I think my mom "gets it" a little after talking with my dad last night, and after finding out that my daughter did not go to work, as she said she would. My dad said she's no longer allowed there. They <em>think</em>. They are loving, wonderful people and have a hard time finalizing or setting that boundary. She's stolen from them, broken into their house and abused them verbally, but they still haven't been able to tell her to stay away until she is in a better place. We'll see what happens.</p><p></p><p>I'm still worried about my daughter, and I'm sad about my relationship with my parents. But it feels good to have our home not be so chaotic right now.</p><p></p><p>Hugs back to you, and thank you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bean, post: 376366, member: 8620"] Thank you. I think I just need to hear that. Yes, I've been to AlAnon and I've suggested my mom do the same -- even one I'm not attending. Or go to counseling (she's been in the thick of this whole situation). Even for advice on dealing with me, as we all have our own experiences in a situation like this. I think my mom "gets it" a little after talking with my dad last night, and after finding out that my daughter did not go to work, as she said she would. My dad said she's no longer allowed there. They [I]think[/I]. They are loving, wonderful people and have a hard time finalizing or setting that boundary. She's stolen from them, broken into their house and abused them verbally, but they still haven't been able to tell her to stay away until she is in a better place. We'll see what happens. I'm still worried about my daughter, and I'm sad about my relationship with my parents. But it feels good to have our home not be so chaotic right now. Hugs back to you, and thank you. [/QUOTE]
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