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Need some advice on continued coping with enablers.
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<blockquote data-quote="trinityroyal" data-source="post: 376841" data-attributes="member: 3907"><p>Another quick thought...</p><p>If your mother (or anyone else for that matter) is not able to respect or adhere to the boundaries that you have set with your daughter, then it seems to be time to impose some boundaries with her. If you have made a rule that your daughter is not allowed in your house unless you or your husband is present, and your mother is letting daughter into your house when you're not there, then you need to either change the locks or take back your mom's key unless she can respect your wishes.</p><p></p><p>You and she may disagree on how to handle your daughter, and I agree with the others who have said that you cannot stop an enabler from enabling. But, you can stop the enabler from forcing you to participate in it.</p><p></p><p>Trinity</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trinityroyal, post: 376841, member: 3907"] Another quick thought... If your mother (or anyone else for that matter) is not able to respect or adhere to the boundaries that you have set with your daughter, then it seems to be time to impose some boundaries with her. If you have made a rule that your daughter is not allowed in your house unless you or your husband is present, and your mother is letting daughter into your house when you're not there, then you need to either change the locks or take back your mom's key unless she can respect your wishes. You and she may disagree on how to handle your daughter, and I agree with the others who have said that you cannot stop an enabler from enabling. But, you can stop the enabler from forcing you to participate in it. Trinity [/QUOTE]
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