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Need some advice on continued coping with enablers.
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<blockquote data-quote="aWillowBreeze" data-source="post: 378657"><p>Bean, </p><p> </p><p>I agree with TerryJ2 replace the locks or request the key back from your mother. It is your home and not her place to allow anyone in without your permission. She may not have to listen to your wishes when it comes to helping your daughter on her own..but including access to your home oversteps a boundary of trust between you and her. Its good that you seem to have a good relationship with your mother outside of the difficult child situation and i hope this doesn't strain it badly. I've learned over time and with my own mistakes of enabling our difficult child to much in the past that we cannot control what anyone else does with them and if they treat those persons the same as they have treated us at home..the help "may" eventually dry up.. Good Luck!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="aWillowBreeze, post: 378657"] Bean, I agree with TerryJ2 replace the locks or request the key back from your mother. It is your home and not her place to allow anyone in without your permission. She may not have to listen to your wishes when it comes to helping your daughter on her own..but including access to your home oversteps a boundary of trust between you and her. Its good that you seem to have a good relationship with your mother outside of the difficult child situation and i hope this doesn't strain it badly. I've learned over time and with my own mistakes of enabling our difficult child to much in the past that we cannot control what anyone else does with them and if they treat those persons the same as they have treated us at home..the help "may" eventually dry up.. Good Luck!! [/QUOTE]
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