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<blockquote data-quote="Signorina" data-source="post: 507721"><p>I'd be straight with her - otherwise it will turn into a big drama thing. I'd tell her - you are my friend and I care about you - but your interest in SO is making both he and I uncomfortable. I know you've always had a crush on him - and I can understand why - but we are in a serious committed relationship and your interest in him makes it uncomfortable to be around you.</p><p></p><p>So - be straight - but put the onus on her. I wouldn't mention that your SO says she is hitting on him because then it becomes a "he says, she says" drama plus she will deny it and then you will be stuck. Just state the facts - she's interested in SO - and use "we" so she knows you are speaking for both you and your SO.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Signorina, post: 507721"] I'd be straight with her - otherwise it will turn into a big drama thing. I'd tell her - you are my friend and I care about you - but your interest in SO is making both he and I uncomfortable. I know you've always had a crush on him - and I can understand why - but we are in a serious committed relationship and your interest in him makes it uncomfortable to be around you. So - be straight - but put the onus on her. I wouldn't mention that your SO says she is hitting on him because then it becomes a "he says, she says" drama plus she will deny it and then you will be stuck. Just state the facts - she's interested in SO - and use "we" so she knows you are speaking for both you and your SO. [/QUOTE]
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