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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 507736" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I agree although I would likely dial it down a bit. Only you know how direct to be with you longtime friend. Perhaps you could tell her that there seems to be a different "vibe" in her communication with both of you and it's making you uncomfortable. In response I'd expect her to say "what do you mean?" which will require you to say something else short and sweet. Sigh. ?? "Due to our close friendship I know that you have found SO attractive but lately it seems like you are not seeing us as the committed couple that we are." </p><p></p><p>A denial or sense of affront might come next which can be cut short by saying "You and I have been so close over the years. I want our friendship to remain close and trusting." End of story. "So...what's new?" LOL Change of subject time. Then time will tell. It's possible that she had an extra drink and made a poor choice which put SO on alert. Since you and SO are aware of the possible problem if anything happens again then you may have to back out of the friendship. Good friends are hard to find. I'd give her a second chance. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 507736, member: 35"] I agree although I would likely dial it down a bit. Only you know how direct to be with you longtime friend. Perhaps you could tell her that there seems to be a different "vibe" in her communication with both of you and it's making you uncomfortable. In response I'd expect her to say "what do you mean?" which will require you to say something else short and sweet. Sigh. ?? "Due to our close friendship I know that you have found SO attractive but lately it seems like you are not seeing us as the committed couple that we are." A denial or sense of affront might come next which can be cut short by saying "You and I have been so close over the years. I want our friendship to remain close and trusting." End of story. "So...what's new?" LOL Change of subject time. Then time will tell. It's possible that she had an extra drink and made a poor choice which put SO on alert. Since you and SO are aware of the possible problem if anything happens again then you may have to back out of the friendship. Good friends are hard to find. I'd give her a second chance. DDD [/QUOTE]
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