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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 507769" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I like Suz's response. But I'm also not one for playing games.</p><p></p><p>I'd check in with SO and let him know she plans to call. I wouldn't make a huge deal out of it, honestly. She's always had a huge crush on the guy. Perhaps she thought she'd better give him a hint before the two of you tied the knot, in case there was a slim chance he had some attraction for her? People can do some odd things out of loneliness, things they wouldn't ordinarily do. Maybe she got a bit tipsy and got carried away.......who knows? I'd just let her know that her actions made SO uncomfortable to the point where he came to you, so as not to hurt her feelings.....which made you uncomfortable because you guys are in a committed relationship, planning to get married. Then she can either apologize and knock it off, knowing that it's obviously a no go with SO and you know the score.......or not and march off in a huff. </p><p></p><p>But you can look at it this way, her actions wound up showing you that SO is obviously committed to the relationship and has no qualms about coming to you with such things. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 507769, member: 84"] I like Suz's response. But I'm also not one for playing games. I'd check in with SO and let him know she plans to call. I wouldn't make a huge deal out of it, honestly. She's always had a huge crush on the guy. Perhaps she thought she'd better give him a hint before the two of you tied the knot, in case there was a slim chance he had some attraction for her? People can do some odd things out of loneliness, things they wouldn't ordinarily do. Maybe she got a bit tipsy and got carried away.......who knows? I'd just let her know that her actions made SO uncomfortable to the point where he came to you, so as not to hurt her feelings.....which made you uncomfortable because you guys are in a committed relationship, planning to get married. Then she can either apologize and knock it off, knowing that it's obviously a no go with SO and you know the score.......or not and march off in a huff. But you can look at it this way, her actions wound up showing you that SO is obviously committed to the relationship and has no qualms about coming to you with such things. :) [/QUOTE]
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