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I am really glad you made it to an alanon meeting. I have been going to a great alanon meeting for the last 5 years and it has been a huge huge help to me. As far as the God stuff..... It states a higher power however you understand it and I think there is a huge variety of what people see as their higher power. For me it is the community I find there.... Not a personal God. I really think the idea is that this is all out of our control