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You do sound very conflicted, HH. On one hand you are angry and resentful towards your husband and are taking up for difficult child... and on the other hand you are angry and resentful towards difficult child for not doing what he was supposed to be doing from the beginning and expecting you "to change everything to suit him because he has shown back up again"...Is there some way you can remove or detach yourself so that you don't feel in the middle? That can't be helping either.Hugs,Suz
You do sound very conflicted, HH. On one hand you are angry and resentful towards your husband and are taking up for difficult child... and on the other hand you are angry and resentful towards difficult child for not doing what he was supposed to be doing from the beginning and expecting you "to change everything to suit him because he has shown back up again"...
Is there some way you can remove or detach yourself so that you don't feel in the middle? That can't be helping either.
Hugs,
Suz
