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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 10896" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Karen, thank you</p><p>I have not looked at it that way. I don't have a right to make husband react the way I think he should. I am not in his shoes and I haven't put it all together like you did in your post. He sees his wife crumble because of difficult child and I guess that would cause more anger on his part. </p><p>Hopefully, we can get through the next few days.</p><p>My difficult child is just popping in whenever he wants at this point.</p><p>I have allowed it, one because I can see him and see he is okay and two I was waiting till the courtdate to see what happens.</p><p>He is supposed to start at mcdonalds today at 3</p><p>He has not slowed down enough to ask about a ride or to let us know if he has a ride to work.</p><p>My parents live about an hour away from us and my easy child has her volleyball practice in the town where they live. We spend sundays with my parents while easy child is at practice.</p><p>I have not decided if I will stay here to make sure difficult child gets to work or just leave with husband and easy child.</p><p>If it wasn't for the courtdate on thurs. I would not even think of staying, yet I know how I would feel if he was stuck at home and didn't get this job.</p><p>I know detaching should come into play here</p><p>He is getting rides everywhere else, why should I worry?</p><p>But, right now I am just trying to make sure I will be okay if I know the reason he didn't get the job that he waited till the last minute to get is because he didn't have a ride to work.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 10896, member: 2389"] Karen, thank you I have not looked at it that way. I don't have a right to make husband react the way I think he should. I am not in his shoes and I haven't put it all together like you did in your post. He sees his wife crumble because of difficult child and I guess that would cause more anger on his part. Hopefully, we can get through the next few days. My difficult child is just popping in whenever he wants at this point. I have allowed it, one because I can see him and see he is okay and two I was waiting till the courtdate to see what happens. He is supposed to start at mcdonalds today at 3 He has not slowed down enough to ask about a ride or to let us know if he has a ride to work. My parents live about an hour away from us and my easy child has her volleyball practice in the town where they live. We spend sundays with my parents while easy child is at practice. I have not decided if I will stay here to make sure difficult child gets to work or just leave with husband and easy child. If it wasn't for the courtdate on thurs. I would not even think of staying, yet I know how I would feel if he was stuck at home and didn't get this job. I know detaching should come into play here He is getting rides everywhere else, why should I worry? But, right now I am just trying to make sure I will be okay if I know the reason he didn't get the job that he waited till the last minute to get is because he didn't have a ride to work. [/QUOTE]
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