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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 76659" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>I think you should post as you need to, just be clear what you want from us. Comfort? A hug? That I know this group can do. If you want advice, that will be given by the basketful. If you can't follow the advice right now, just say so and we'll try to understand.</p><p></p><p>I think our frustration comes from seeing you put yourself through so much pain for a man who uses you. Not only are you in pain but you're endangering yourself, your future, your family. As important, you are not helping your son right now. You are helping him be a junkie. </p><p></p><p>If your son were a stranger, would you tolerate this behavior? Right now, he is not your son -- he is a man on drugs and until he is willing to get help to stop using drugs, he is not your son. Once you can accept that, I think you will be able to move on and start helping him. For now, we have to accept that you still see him as your beloved child rather than a man on drugs. </p><p></p><p>We'll try to stand by you. We may become frustrated but we'll still be there for you. So post as you need us, just try to be clear what you want from us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 76659, member: 3626"] I think you should post as you need to, just be clear what you want from us. Comfort? A hug? That I know this group can do. If you want advice, that will be given by the basketful. If you can't follow the advice right now, just say so and we'll try to understand. I think our frustration comes from seeing you put yourself through so much pain for a man who uses you. Not only are you in pain but you're endangering yourself, your future, your family. As important, you are not helping your son right now. You are helping him be a junkie. If your son were a stranger, would you tolerate this behavior? Right now, he is not your son -- he is a man on drugs and until he is willing to get help to stop using drugs, he is not your son. Once you can accept that, I think you will be able to move on and start helping him. For now, we have to accept that you still see him as your beloved child rather than a man on drugs. We'll try to stand by you. We may become frustrated but we'll still be there for you. So post as you need us, just try to be clear what you want from us. [/QUOTE]
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