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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 431371" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>She is his sister. He knows her better than you do (even if you have known her for years, he has known her longer.) Years ago I learned to respect my husband's stand on his family. AT first I tried to include them a LOT but they ALL proved they don't really care to be involved with us. I have NEVER done ANYTHING with just his sister, not even exchanged letters. Ditto his mother. I have seen his dad and step mom 2 or 3 times (in 20 yrs) with-o husband. We talk a couple times a year, and see them once in the summer maybe and at Christmas and maybe either thanksgiving or Easter. I let that be all because they PROVED, in NO uncertain terms, that they do NOT want to be involved with us. Things like ddriving past us to see his stepmom's grandkids with-o even waving - ducking down in their seats so we wouldn't see them!! Kinds of things. No hard feelings anymore, but I don't push.</p><p></p><p>Follow your husband's lead and avoid the drama.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 431371, member: 1233"] She is his sister. He knows her better than you do (even if you have known her for years, he has known her longer.) Years ago I learned to respect my husband's stand on his family. AT first I tried to include them a LOT but they ALL proved they don't really care to be involved with us. I have NEVER done ANYTHING with just his sister, not even exchanged letters. Ditto his mother. I have seen his dad and step mom 2 or 3 times (in 20 yrs) with-o husband. We talk a couple times a year, and see them once in the summer maybe and at Christmas and maybe either thanksgiving or Easter. I let that be all because they PROVED, in NO uncertain terms, that they do NOT want to be involved with us. Things like ddriving past us to see his stepmom's grandkids with-o even waving - ducking down in their seats so we wouldn't see them!! Kinds of things. No hard feelings anymore, but I don't push. Follow your husband's lead and avoid the drama. [/QUOTE]
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