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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 743079" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi toomanytears:</p><p></p><p>I can only think of a couple alternatives. He must be scared. If family could go to him and travel back together. But this would be if you were secure he would be safe, not fight or make an altercation. I do not have that confidence in my own son.</p><p></p><p>The other possibility is that you work with his attorney and the district attorney/court to see if there is some way that they could "help." He is clearly impaired. There is a record of treatment. They are aware he is compromised.</p><p></p><p>But the thing is he is making a choice illogical as it seems. He knows if he resists he risks 25 to life. There could be part of him that seeks this.</p><p></p><p>The result is beyond your control. However sad it is. And it is very sad. I am sorry. I hope he comes to his senses.</p><p></p><p>The main thing though is best you can insulate yourselves from this stress. You know you cannot save him. We have to save ourselves. We are valuable and needed.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 743079, member: 18958"] Hi toomanytears: I can only think of a couple alternatives. He must be scared. If family could go to him and travel back together. But this would be if you were secure he would be safe, not fight or make an altercation. I do not have that confidence in my own son. The other possibility is that you work with his attorney and the district attorney/court to see if there is some way that they could "help." He is clearly impaired. There is a record of treatment. They are aware he is compromised. But the thing is he is making a choice illogical as it seems. He knows if he resists he risks 25 to life. There could be part of him that seeks this. The result is beyond your control. However sad it is. And it is very sad. I am sorry. I hope he comes to his senses. The main thing though is best you can insulate yourselves from this stress. You know you cannot save him. We have to save ourselves. We are valuable and needed. [/QUOTE]
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