Tia,
I'm sorry for you both. (((Hugs))) I know she's really struggled to get on top of things all her life, and has done so remarkably so despite every roadblock. You know my first incling was schizophrenia - HOWEVER after the list of medications and the strength coupled with the freedom of college, drinking, and God knows what at any given party? I think I'd back up on that thought and put it on a back burner for awhile.
I have no personal experience with Lithium, but one of Dudes teachers was on it for a long time and we talked about the effects it had on her long term, and the spacing out, and aggression was two that I remember her speaking about. The fact that your daughter hasn't had any blood work to test her levels and how they are affecting her organs and blood? Hmmm I'm not medical either, but I would think at such a high dose I'd want to start there before going anywhere. That and possibly reading about the side effects of all the medications and maybe talking to a pharmacist about the long-term interactions. The diarrahea may be helped by probiotics introduced into her diet daily. That alone would make me grumpy - and possibly she could add some imodium - IF it doesn't have any problems interacting with the other drugs - it can't be taken with some medicaitons -if she is taking it? That may be one of her problems (just thinking)
I think a complete physical, blood panel, and some rest are needed for her. As far as talking to the guy on the computer and other stuff? I'd basket b that for now - absolutely be acutely aware of it, document it, but I think we need to get her blood chemicals straightened out first and then proceed. It could be something as simple as STRESS. I don't know - like I said I don't take and never have taken the drugs she's on so I can't speak as to the side effects. But if she's feeling wonkey/ Time for a check up first and THEN see where you go from there. If levels are fine? Maybe change medications? Maybe add something FOR shcizophrenia and see how she feels. Definitely have her tell the doctor about it. Nothing to be embarassed about - I do know three schizophrenics, and all are dandy people as long as they stay on their medications. When they don't? One of them is very aggressive, physically harmful, dangerous, the other two I'm not sure the one girl gets mean, angry, very out there - the other is just a mess. It's one of the illnesses I dislike the most for anyone.
I'm sure others will come along that have more experience with all of this. Just know you are in my thoughts.
And as far as her transcripts? Do you think maybe a letter from her doctorS would help them release her records - Maybe if theyknew WHY she had to leave? They could help her.