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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 184969" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Terry,</p><p> </p><p>I think you handled that beautifully. I don't think there is much you CAN do to get through to him, unless you can get him admitted to a long term psychiatric hospital to have them try to get through to him.</p><p> </p><p>It hurts so bad to tell someone to call the police, or to do it yourself. I know how hard it is to even breathe through it. But you did the only thing you could do. </p><p> </p><p>I think his reactions are actually pretty common for a preteen in an embarrassing situation. To adults it is so much more, but he is not an adult. </p><p> </p><p>What does husband think about your talk with the neighbor? Does he realize this is WAY more than "just guy stuff"? Is he ready to discuss Residential Treatment Center (RTC) or psychiatric hospital with you? I know you don't want to, but it may be the only thing to keep him from getting a record at age 11. </p><p> </p><p>I think the neighbors really have no choices here but to ban him and to call the police if he is on their property at all, esp if he is in the house. </p><p> </p><p>Be prepared for him to test this as much as he can. he won't believe she will call the police, or that her husband will. I think he doesn't see this as a big deal.</p><p> </p><p>Does your husband realize what a big deal this is? It truly IS.</p><p> </p><p>I would not want to touch the panties, much less wear them if I were the neighbor. And the younger I was, the more creeped out I would be by the thought of wearing them. </p><p> </p><p>In reality, this is a violation of not just the neighbors' home, but of the wife and daughter. and THAT is something most judges WON'T take lightly. Please discuss all the possibly ramifications with your husband. As many as you can think of. </p><p> </p><p>I am so very very sorry. I have been there in situations where the police may have been called, where we had to call them on our preteen/young teen. Please PM me if I can support you in any way at all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 184969, member: 1233"] Terry, I think you handled that beautifully. I don't think there is much you CAN do to get through to him, unless you can get him admitted to a long term psychiatric hospital to have them try to get through to him. It hurts so bad to tell someone to call the police, or to do it yourself. I know how hard it is to even breathe through it. But you did the only thing you could do. I think his reactions are actually pretty common for a preteen in an embarrassing situation. To adults it is so much more, but he is not an adult. What does husband think about your talk with the neighbor? Does he realize this is WAY more than "just guy stuff"? Is he ready to discuss Residential Treatment Center (RTC) or psychiatric hospital with you? I know you don't want to, but it may be the only thing to keep him from getting a record at age 11. I think the neighbors really have no choices here but to ban him and to call the police if he is on their property at all, esp if he is in the house. Be prepared for him to test this as much as he can. he won't believe she will call the police, or that her husband will. I think he doesn't see this as a big deal. Does your husband realize what a big deal this is? It truly IS. I would not want to touch the panties, much less wear them if I were the neighbor. And the younger I was, the more creeped out I would be by the thought of wearing them. In reality, this is a violation of not just the neighbors' home, but of the wife and daughter. and THAT is something most judges WON'T take lightly. Please discuss all the possibly ramifications with your husband. As many as you can think of. I am so very very sorry. I have been there in situations where the police may have been called, where we had to call them on our preteen/young teen. Please PM me if I can support you in any way at all. [/QUOTE]
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