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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 681522" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>My mother decided to take all of the money when her father died and left his estate in 3 parts, for her, my sister and I. While there was an existing, legal will, she said my grandfather changed his mind.</p><p></p><p>He may or may not have, I will never know. What I do know is that my mother wanted all of the money which she considered all hers.</p><p></p><p>Even though it happened over 30 years ago, it is in my mind because yesterday I saw a copy of the will when I was dealing with my mothers papers (she died in 2013.)</p><p></p><p>With her own estate, she left it 50-50 but she had always promised and set aside a sum of money as compensation to me for paying for my sister's education and not mine. She changed her mind.</p><p></p><p>My mother never made a promise that I remember that she did not break.</p><p></p><p>I agree: it is not about the money. It is about love and wanting to protect, at minimum. But most of all it is about wanting to hurt one child, and choosing to benefit the others.</p><p></p><p>I remember I called my aunt to ask her to send me a copy of the will. (I did not know that wills are legally filed at that time.) She was a multi-millionaire. She would not give me a copy and she was bitter, even with her millions, that she had not received her full share.</p><p></p><p>It is not about money. </p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 681522, member: 18958"] My mother decided to take all of the money when her father died and left his estate in 3 parts, for her, my sister and I. While there was an existing, legal will, she said my grandfather changed his mind. He may or may not have, I will never know. What I do know is that my mother wanted all of the money which she considered all hers. Even though it happened over 30 years ago, it is in my mind because yesterday I saw a copy of the will when I was dealing with my mothers papers (she died in 2013.) With her own estate, she left it 50-50 but she had always promised and set aside a sum of money as compensation to me for paying for my sister's education and not mine. She changed her mind. My mother never made a promise that I remember that she did not break. I agree: it is not about the money. It is about love and wanting to protect, at minimum. But most of all it is about wanting to hurt one child, and choosing to benefit the others. I remember I called my aunt to ask her to send me a copy of the will. (I did not know that wills are legally filed at that time.) She was a multi-millionaire. She would not give me a copy and she was bitter, even with her millions, that she had not received her full share. It is not about money. COPA [/QUOTE]
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