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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 287318" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Oh my Heavens!! I am glad that your SO is not dead, and I am praying as I read and type that he is not permanently damaged!! I hope the brain injury heals and does not cause any permanent damage!</p><p></p><p>There is no way to know why this man is fixated on you and obsessed with getting SO out of your life and himself into your life. He is clearly psychotic. Can you schedule an appointment with the family doctor and take in SO (a double appointment squeezed in by the receptionist so he gets NO LUNCH BREAK would be worth a small bribe to the receptionist, in my opinion) so that he can see the damage and then INSIST he call that the guy is a danger. If you can afford it, book an appointment a day until he calls just to get you to leave him alone, might be well worth it. If he does NOT call, since the man is a CLEAR and PRESENT danger, file charges with the medical board after you see the doctor. </p><p></p><p>As for bail, I cannot imagine why laws were created to shelter people like this. But they are. ALL over the world. </p><p></p><p>Carry your steel pieces, or get SO to make an aluminum version so you can get a better swing - it may be easier iwth the MS flare. But given the adrenaline that just seeing this man may produce in you, you may not need the lighter item. Just make the first swing count!</p><p></p><p>I can only imagine your terror. I think maybe finding some guided meditation online might be helpful. It might help you get a break from the terror. I am glad that difficult child was old enough to understand to lock up and protect your daughter. Sending daughter to her dad was good thinking, even though I know you miss her like crazy. Maybe difficult child can turn some of his difficult child gifts into thinking up ways to booby trap your yard? NOT seriously, but imagining how he could help might empower him in this terrifying situation.</p><p></p><p>I cannot fathom how the cops could believe this lunatic and haul SO off to the drunk tank! Get a lawyer because until you have legal protection they are NOT going to do anything. They will be afraid to admit they made a mistake and will be worried that the lunatic will use their actions for his defense. After all, the cops thought SO was the problem and took him away, so how could the lunatic be the problem?? Be prepared for this defense. Twisted minds often have advantages because they lie with-o guilt.</p><p></p><p>Does SO have a neurologist to keep an eye on him in case things don't heal? I think you should sue the creep if the cops don't pick him up. Keep records of anything you pay for in the way of home protection, increased costs because you can't use the house and have to all travel as a group, etc... REcord everything you can think of. Then take whatever legal advice you can get and sue this guy and the cops.</p><p></p><p>PLEASE take care of yourself and SO. Do whatever you have to to work off the adrenaline. If you can stretch and do mild exercises, or whatever you can, inside it will go a long way to helping. ANY physical activity can help. </p><p></p><p>PLEASE keep a daily log of how SO is feeling, and records of any tests they do so that you can identify problems EARLY. As with anything else, early intervention is best. A diary of SO's moods, any physical symptoms, if he eats too much, or stops eating, all of that can be helpful.</p><p></p><p>You are in my prayers, and I will drop a note in our church's prayer box (just for prayers for my friend in Canada, that is all - nothing specific). Many gentle hugs.</p><p></p><p>Don't be afraid to tell the doctor if you need anxiety medications and/or pain medications to help you through this. Muscle relaxers may help also (thinking of all those tense muscles that happen with anxiety). Maybe you and SO can alternate giving each other massages. It might also help to give difficult child a massage.</p><p></p><p>Stay as safe as possible. I wish you could have a gun (does Canada permit you to have a gun for home defense? Here in OK they are almost (not quite, but almost) required. If you can legally have a gun, get one. You KNOW this nut will have one.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 287318, member: 1233"] Oh my Heavens!! I am glad that your SO is not dead, and I am praying as I read and type that he is not permanently damaged!! I hope the brain injury heals and does not cause any permanent damage! There is no way to know why this man is fixated on you and obsessed with getting SO out of your life and himself into your life. He is clearly psychotic. Can you schedule an appointment with the family doctor and take in SO (a double appointment squeezed in by the receptionist so he gets NO LUNCH BREAK would be worth a small bribe to the receptionist, in my opinion) so that he can see the damage and then INSIST he call that the guy is a danger. If you can afford it, book an appointment a day until he calls just to get you to leave him alone, might be well worth it. If he does NOT call, since the man is a CLEAR and PRESENT danger, file charges with the medical board after you see the doctor. As for bail, I cannot imagine why laws were created to shelter people like this. But they are. ALL over the world. Carry your steel pieces, or get SO to make an aluminum version so you can get a better swing - it may be easier iwth the MS flare. But given the adrenaline that just seeing this man may produce in you, you may not need the lighter item. Just make the first swing count! I can only imagine your terror. I think maybe finding some guided meditation online might be helpful. It might help you get a break from the terror. I am glad that difficult child was old enough to understand to lock up and protect your daughter. Sending daughter to her dad was good thinking, even though I know you miss her like crazy. Maybe difficult child can turn some of his difficult child gifts into thinking up ways to booby trap your yard? NOT seriously, but imagining how he could help might empower him in this terrifying situation. I cannot fathom how the cops could believe this lunatic and haul SO off to the drunk tank! Get a lawyer because until you have legal protection they are NOT going to do anything. They will be afraid to admit they made a mistake and will be worried that the lunatic will use their actions for his defense. After all, the cops thought SO was the problem and took him away, so how could the lunatic be the problem?? Be prepared for this defense. Twisted minds often have advantages because they lie with-o guilt. Does SO have a neurologist to keep an eye on him in case things don't heal? I think you should sue the creep if the cops don't pick him up. Keep records of anything you pay for in the way of home protection, increased costs because you can't use the house and have to all travel as a group, etc... REcord everything you can think of. Then take whatever legal advice you can get and sue this guy and the cops. PLEASE take care of yourself and SO. Do whatever you have to to work off the adrenaline. If you can stretch and do mild exercises, or whatever you can, inside it will go a long way to helping. ANY physical activity can help. PLEASE keep a daily log of how SO is feeling, and records of any tests they do so that you can identify problems EARLY. As with anything else, early intervention is best. A diary of SO's moods, any physical symptoms, if he eats too much, or stops eating, all of that can be helpful. You are in my prayers, and I will drop a note in our church's prayer box (just for prayers for my friend in Canada, that is all - nothing specific). Many gentle hugs. Don't be afraid to tell the doctor if you need anxiety medications and/or pain medications to help you through this. Muscle relaxers may help also (thinking of all those tense muscles that happen with anxiety). Maybe you and SO can alternate giving each other massages. It might also help to give difficult child a massage. Stay as safe as possible. I wish you could have a gun (does Canada permit you to have a gun for home defense? Here in OK they are almost (not quite, but almost) required. If you can legally have a gun, get one. You KNOW this nut will have one. [/QUOTE]
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