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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 287470" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Thanks once again to the new posters.</p><p>Well I won't go into detail as I don't need to get myself upset again but he was emailing the superintendent and some more insight to his mind came about. He also kind of cornered another neighbour and they played nice so he wouldnt turn on them, and listened to him for a bit in their driveway until he left. More insight. He was even trying to rent another empty place on MY STREET just a few doors away. Thank goodness he is unaware of the neighbourhood lockdown and watch program we've all created. Everyone knows. Nobody will rent to him here. But proof he wants to continue this after he is forced to move. So much for hoping for that.</p><p></p><p>We're considering many options for long term. Perhaps with my S/O joining air force, a request that instead of remaining here for first 2 years before posting to another base, we can get posted right away, as in by time school starts in Sept. If we get posted, all bases are far from here, plus they are secure and he won't know where we've gone etc anyhow. I doubt he'd travel to try something. He likes the safety of this road, his home etc. I think to him its his safe haven around here where he can play his twisted games etc. Moving is definitly something we are taking seriously and talking about. It seems logical. </p><p>Meanwhile, difficult child and S/O had a good sleep. I myself didn't sleep but for perhaps 2 hours broken sleep. This isn't good! So now S/O and I are on a mission for me to RELAX and just sleep. Any calls today he will field and unless mandatory, will not talk to me about any new information coming in until I'm well rested. Seems a reasonable approach since it means I feel safe resting and letting myself feel safe to sleep knowing S/O is rested, calls won't go unanswered from neighbours and he can be alert. I've always been made to feel safe with him and somehow he is like a magic safe potion, my trust and faith in him is just that way. So I'm off to bed with my cat and a book and a muscle relaxant and S/O plans to not wake me if I can sleep a good sleep, for at least 8 hours. My schedule will be messed up for sure, but heck. It's already been destroyed. So sleep it is!!!!!! I'm told to expect a nice special dinner when I wake up. Have I mentioned how I love this man??? Trying times like this can bring people together or can harm them. We were so good before this, and now through this we are just in sync even more and that has helped alot.</p><p>Sleep vibes are good ... send them north k?? </p><p>Again, thanks for all the input and caring and beads!!!</p><p>I keep saying, we're here again today, drama continues but nobody is hurt today and we are safe right now. That helps to. I hope to meet rip van winkle on my travel to my bed. Night Night!!</p><p>M.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 287470, member: 4264"] Thanks once again to the new posters. Well I won't go into detail as I don't need to get myself upset again but he was emailing the superintendent and some more insight to his mind came about. He also kind of cornered another neighbour and they played nice so he wouldnt turn on them, and listened to him for a bit in their driveway until he left. More insight. He was even trying to rent another empty place on MY STREET just a few doors away. Thank goodness he is unaware of the neighbourhood lockdown and watch program we've all created. Everyone knows. Nobody will rent to him here. But proof he wants to continue this after he is forced to move. So much for hoping for that. We're considering many options for long term. Perhaps with my S/O joining air force, a request that instead of remaining here for first 2 years before posting to another base, we can get posted right away, as in by time school starts in Sept. If we get posted, all bases are far from here, plus they are secure and he won't know where we've gone etc anyhow. I doubt he'd travel to try something. He likes the safety of this road, his home etc. I think to him its his safe haven around here where he can play his twisted games etc. Moving is definitly something we are taking seriously and talking about. It seems logical. Meanwhile, difficult child and S/O had a good sleep. I myself didn't sleep but for perhaps 2 hours broken sleep. This isn't good! So now S/O and I are on a mission for me to RELAX and just sleep. Any calls today he will field and unless mandatory, will not talk to me about any new information coming in until I'm well rested. Seems a reasonable approach since it means I feel safe resting and letting myself feel safe to sleep knowing S/O is rested, calls won't go unanswered from neighbours and he can be alert. I've always been made to feel safe with him and somehow he is like a magic safe potion, my trust and faith in him is just that way. So I'm off to bed with my cat and a book and a muscle relaxant and S/O plans to not wake me if I can sleep a good sleep, for at least 8 hours. My schedule will be messed up for sure, but heck. It's already been destroyed. So sleep it is!!!!!! I'm told to expect a nice special dinner when I wake up. Have I mentioned how I love this man??? Trying times like this can bring people together or can harm them. We were so good before this, and now through this we are just in sync even more and that has helped alot. Sleep vibes are good ... send them north k?? Again, thanks for all the input and caring and beads!!! I keep saying, we're here again today, drama continues but nobody is hurt today and we are safe right now. That helps to. I hope to meet rip van winkle on my travel to my bed. Night Night!! M. [/QUOTE]
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