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I forgot to add in the body of my post that T is adopted. He was adopted domestically at 4 days old. His birthmom's health history is a family history of depression (her mother took Paxil, her father took Prozac). Her sister and nephew have ADHD. She has was taking Exeffor throughout her whole PG and she has a norverbal learning disability that accommodations were made in school. She did not do drugs or drink (and judging from the our experience with her we believe her). Our best guess is that she was raised in home with some emotional abuse due to way her parents spoke about her when we met her and the fact that she was engaged to a college student (who was away at school) when she became Preg with T. This is pure guessing, but from what we could tell, T's birthfather was a sweet talker and paid her some attention that she was seeking for those around her and not getting.