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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 231326" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Sounds like you've had some progress. WHatever you've been doing, keep it up!</p><p></p><p>Good luck for this weekend, I hope your talk with husband bears fruit.</p><p></p><p>Can you introduce him to us lot here? Would him reading the posts here make it easier for you? I mean, my husband & I are close, we've always communicated well. I found this mob and began getting a lot out of it. The people on this site gave me the courge to make some major changes and to stand by my decisiosn. husband was also in on the decisions but since the bulk of the resultant workload was to fall on me, he said it had to be my choice, primarily.</p><p>Hoevwe, he did start 'lurking' here, mostly reading what I had posted. He would come home from work and raisee a topic I'd mentioned, often saying, "I know you've tried to explaine it to me, but when I read your post it made it much cleaer." </p><p>Sometimes I had said soemthing he disagreed with and again, we would talk.</p><p>Then he ocasionally hijacked my log-on but made it clear it was him, by signing himself, "Marg's Man". But it often meant I couldn't find a thread I wanted to follow, because husband had read updates and I hadn't. So I got him to join in his own right, to make it easier for me. And now he occasionally posts in his own right, but always he reads what I post and we still talk. It also has meant that when a particular member is having problems (as when Dammit Janet got so sick recently, or Timer Lady's health problems and current worries) husband will keep tabs there, too, and if he's busy will ask me how they're going and to make sure to send his love along as well. </p><p></p><p>It all depends on what works for you and your husband, of course.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, I hope this weekend goes well for you all.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 231326, member: 1991"] Sounds like you've had some progress. WHatever you've been doing, keep it up! Good luck for this weekend, I hope your talk with husband bears fruit. Can you introduce him to us lot here? Would him reading the posts here make it easier for you? I mean, my husband & I are close, we've always communicated well. I found this mob and began getting a lot out of it. The people on this site gave me the courge to make some major changes and to stand by my decisiosn. husband was also in on the decisions but since the bulk of the resultant workload was to fall on me, he said it had to be my choice, primarily. Hoevwe, he did start 'lurking' here, mostly reading what I had posted. He would come home from work and raisee a topic I'd mentioned, often saying, "I know you've tried to explaine it to me, but when I read your post it made it much cleaer." Sometimes I had said soemthing he disagreed with and again, we would talk. Then he ocasionally hijacked my log-on but made it clear it was him, by signing himself, "Marg's Man". But it often meant I couldn't find a thread I wanted to follow, because husband had read updates and I hadn't. So I got him to join in his own right, to make it easier for me. And now he occasionally posts in his own right, but always he reads what I post and we still talk. It also has meant that when a particular member is having problems (as when Dammit Janet got so sick recently, or Timer Lady's health problems and current worries) husband will keep tabs there, too, and if he's busy will ask me how they're going and to make sure to send his love along as well. It all depends on what works for you and your husband, of course. Anyway, I hope this weekend goes well for you all. Marg [/QUOTE]
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