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<blockquote data-quote="carolinablonde" data-source="post: 410564" data-attributes="member: 11283"><p>Thank you. Yes, my ex and I are on good terms...as far as the kids go anyway. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /> We have them on a week on, week off schedule. So, I will have them for a full week and then he has them for the next full week. Although, because of his and his wifes work schedules, I frequently have them overnight a couple nights during his week. Of course, tonight and tomorrow night are those nights and then they come back with me on Friday for a week. I spoke with my ex and let him know what's going on. He said he felt comfortable with my plan for their safety and was ok with them being with me for the short term, but we left it up to the girls because they have stated that they are sometimes afraid when they are here. My oldest didn't want to come. She was very upset that C was coming home. They have a lot of conflicts so I expected that reaction. She also said she doesn't like to see C hurt me, and threaten to kill me, which is totally understandable. In the end she decided she would come, but only because they would get here after C would be in her room. Turns out, they are now not discharging her until the morning, but it will still be an issue for tomorrow night. She has an alarm on her door and it will be on. And, if I feel like it's been a bad day for C, I will have the girls sleep with me. husband works 3rd shift... </p><p> </p><p>My ex has had to take the girls when I've had to be at the ER with C. He has said that if I ever feel like they shouldn't be in the house that he doesn't have a problem with them staying with him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="carolinablonde, post: 410564, member: 11283"] Thank you. Yes, my ex and I are on good terms...as far as the kids go anyway. ;) We have them on a week on, week off schedule. So, I will have them for a full week and then he has them for the next full week. Although, because of his and his wifes work schedules, I frequently have them overnight a couple nights during his week. Of course, tonight and tomorrow night are those nights and then they come back with me on Friday for a week. I spoke with my ex and let him know what's going on. He said he felt comfortable with my plan for their safety and was ok with them being with me for the short term, but we left it up to the girls because they have stated that they are sometimes afraid when they are here. My oldest didn't want to come. She was very upset that C was coming home. They have a lot of conflicts so I expected that reaction. She also said she doesn't like to see C hurt me, and threaten to kill me, which is totally understandable. In the end she decided she would come, but only because they would get here after C would be in her room. Turns out, they are now not discharging her until the morning, but it will still be an issue for tomorrow night. She has an alarm on her door and it will be on. And, if I feel like it's been a bad day for C, I will have the girls sleep with me. husband works 3rd shift... My ex has had to take the girls when I've had to be at the ER with C. He has said that if I ever feel like they shouldn't be in the house that he doesn't have a problem with them staying with him. [/QUOTE]
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