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<blockquote data-quote="exhausted" data-source="post: 545691" data-attributes="member: 11001"><p>9,</p><p>I am so glad you have him. I know the feelings you have about relief yet not happy to have him there with all his behavior. I hope he will get a tough set of rules and a good PO that will hold his hands to the fire. I hope they also help him process the junk about his father. This hurts so much.</p><p></p><p>You cannot let guilt set in. You have to live your life. Keep doing what you need to stay healthy or else the life is sucked right out of you and you are no good to anyone. Right after school was out I went down....I mean down. I was physically ill, could not move and mentally numb. I had held it together for 3 years and I just could not anymore. It took 2 weeks to get on my feet. Please go to class and eat and do what works for you.</p><p></p><p>I have wondered if moving would help difficult child as well. I have heard of many that it does. My difficult child really is very sick mentally so it might get her away from her contacts, but I don't know that she wouldn't just find new ones wherever we went. My sister lives in a mountain town in Idaho and has offered to take her (they have a lot in common difficult child wise)-but I just worry that the same will go on there and I don't want to pass my worries on. My sister really isn't very healthy anyway. I hope you can find a good place to go soon. ((Hugs))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="exhausted, post: 545691, member: 11001"] 9, I am so glad you have him. I know the feelings you have about relief yet not happy to have him there with all his behavior. I hope he will get a tough set of rules and a good PO that will hold his hands to the fire. I hope they also help him process the junk about his father. This hurts so much. You cannot let guilt set in. You have to live your life. Keep doing what you need to stay healthy or else the life is sucked right out of you and you are no good to anyone. Right after school was out I went down....I mean down. I was physically ill, could not move and mentally numb. I had held it together for 3 years and I just could not anymore. It took 2 weeks to get on my feet. Please go to class and eat and do what works for you. I have wondered if moving would help difficult child as well. I have heard of many that it does. My difficult child really is very sick mentally so it might get her away from her contacts, but I don't know that she wouldn't just find new ones wherever we went. My sister lives in a mountain town in Idaho and has offered to take her (they have a lot in common difficult child wise)-but I just worry that the same will go on there and I don't want to pass my worries on. My sister really isn't very healthy anyway. I hope you can find a good place to go soon. ((Hugs)) [/QUOTE]
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