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<blockquote data-quote="losttheplot" data-source="post: 167221"><p>Hi...</p><p></p><p>I have a 7yo son who could be related to your little one..... I had to move my son to the front of the car to keep him away from his sister otherwise he attacked all the time...... it also allows me to watch him a bit better but that doesn't work for everyone......</p><p></p><p>I also have the rages with my son ....he was diagnosed ODD (but they say its more like CD...has attacked with weapons etc ...he is just so young for the name)....we have holes in every wall, and broken furniture all over the house...he gets that angry he walks into a room and attacks it.... ... he wont eat a lot of the stuff I make cause it looks bad or whatever so I make him go hungry.. if that doesn't work I let him have a s/w... he wont starve. i cant restrain him cause he screams that i am killing or suffocating him....... and i end up hurt..... </p><p></p><p>I was told when he started hitting me with bricks recently to ignore My son, and walk away so i often put me and my youngest in time out....... we get the break and take a walk into another room....... Its not easy to ignore a child when they say they hate you and they want you to die or when they are attacking you but when you take away the attention they get for mucking up they will usually move onto something else.......</p><p></p><p>the loud noises from her and the demand for quiet from others is more a sensory issue i feel...... My son cant cope with our noise cause he cant control the levels etc and he cant handle all the different things happening at once... so we got him earmuffs.... when he feels its too much he can put them on and drown us all out......I have to not ask him questions after school for eg so he can get his feet back otherwise he is so overstimulated that he will attack...(too many fluros, noise, demands, clothes are itchy etc) </p><p></p><p>I don't profess to know heaps as we are about the same place but I do know how you fell...we stopped taking difficult child out in public cause the looks were more than I could bear and he just cant cope.....I want to send you hugs though and say I feel your pain.... and there are times it does get better.....</p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/you_go_girl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":you_go_girl:" title="you_go_girl :you_go_girl:" data-shortname=":you_go_girl:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="losttheplot, post: 167221"] Hi... I have a 7yo son who could be related to your little one..... I had to move my son to the front of the car to keep him away from his sister otherwise he attacked all the time...... it also allows me to watch him a bit better but that doesn't work for everyone...... I also have the rages with my son ....he was diagnosed ODD (but they say its more like CD...has attacked with weapons etc ...he is just so young for the name)....we have holes in every wall, and broken furniture all over the house...he gets that angry he walks into a room and attacks it.... ... he wont eat a lot of the stuff I make cause it looks bad or whatever so I make him go hungry.. if that doesn't work I let him have a s/w... he wont starve. i cant restrain him cause he screams that i am killing or suffocating him....... and i end up hurt..... I was told when he started hitting me with bricks recently to ignore My son, and walk away so i often put me and my youngest in time out....... we get the break and take a walk into another room....... Its not easy to ignore a child when they say they hate you and they want you to die or when they are attacking you but when you take away the attention they get for mucking up they will usually move onto something else....... the loud noises from her and the demand for quiet from others is more a sensory issue i feel...... My son cant cope with our noise cause he cant control the levels etc and he cant handle all the different things happening at once... so we got him earmuffs.... when he feels its too much he can put them on and drown us all out......I have to not ask him questions after school for eg so he can get his feet back otherwise he is so overstimulated that he will attack...(too many fluros, noise, demands, clothes are itchy etc) I don't profess to know heaps as we are about the same place but I do know how you fell...we stopped taking difficult child out in public cause the looks were more than I could bear and he just cant cope.....I want to send you hugs though and say I feel your pain.... and there are times it does get better..... :you_go_girl: [/QUOTE]
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