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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 259689"><p>I fought school tooth and nail in middle school. I bet they all ran when my car pulled in. Due to difficult child's reputation, anything and everything that ever happened at school was difficult child's fault. Punish first....while they investigate. i spent days and days at school fighting for him. Having them investigate FIRST, then punish. Making sure the person that initiated the incident will recieve the same consequence as my son for reacting. Making sure his IEP had specific information. difficult child would get blamed, punished, in school suspension...and I would NOT know. After difficult child started complaining that he was getting in trouble and he didn't do it I asked to see the referral. NONE of them had his statement - which is usually different from the teachers. He had been accused of so many things. Even stealing from a teachers purse. LOL, they called me at home to tell me this. He was HOME sick that day.</p><p>I had the vice principal threaten to call the police and have me removed. Because I was waiting to speak to the principal over an incident I KNOW he didn't do.</p><p>Yes I will fight school every step of the way. If the students are held accountable for their actions the school better be held accountable for theirs!!!</p><p>I did get principal and Special Education person to really take an interest and things changed. Specific IEP information to keep difficult child from exploding. Proactive things.</p><p> </p><p>One day at a time. And yes, I will do what ever I have to do to keep difficult child safe. To help him survive. He doesn't want to feel this way. He doesn't want to be angry, frustrated, afraid. He cannot control that. How can you punish someone for something they cannot control. So yes. psychiatrist, therapist, medication. People in place if he needs to call someone anytime.</p><p>Lol. I can say this all right now because it has been a better day than the previous. One day at a time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 259689"] I fought school tooth and nail in middle school. I bet they all ran when my car pulled in. Due to difficult child's reputation, anything and everything that ever happened at school was difficult child's fault. Punish first....while they investigate. i spent days and days at school fighting for him. Having them investigate FIRST, then punish. Making sure the person that initiated the incident will recieve the same consequence as my son for reacting. Making sure his IEP had specific information. difficult child would get blamed, punished, in school suspension...and I would NOT know. After difficult child started complaining that he was getting in trouble and he didn't do it I asked to see the referral. NONE of them had his statement - which is usually different from the teachers. He had been accused of so many things. Even stealing from a teachers purse. LOL, they called me at home to tell me this. He was HOME sick that day. I had the vice principal threaten to call the police and have me removed. Because I was waiting to speak to the principal over an incident I KNOW he didn't do. Yes I will fight school every step of the way. If the students are held accountable for their actions the school better be held accountable for theirs!!! I did get principal and Special Education person to really take an interest and things changed. Specific IEP information to keep difficult child from exploding. Proactive things. One day at a time. And yes, I will do what ever I have to do to keep difficult child safe. To help him survive. He doesn't want to feel this way. He doesn't want to be angry, frustrated, afraid. He cannot control that. How can you punish someone for something they cannot control. So yes. psychiatrist, therapist, medication. People in place if he needs to call someone anytime. Lol. I can say this all right now because it has been a better day than the previous. One day at a time. [/QUOTE]
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