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<blockquote data-quote="Hestiax3" data-source="post: 208960" data-attributes="member: 6242"><p>Thank you for the understanding words of encouragement. It's been such a trying and difficult 7 years.</p><p> </p><p>I have been completely disengaged for the past 3 years. I gave husband full responsibilty for SS. If husband was out of town and SS needed something or was in trouble, he knew not to even bother calling me. </p><p> </p><p>The year before he moved out was the worst year I could ever imagine with the constant violence, lying and stealing. We installed a deadbolt lock on our bedroom door because we were afraid to sleep with him in the house. His own mother would not even allow him in her home. The death threat was he final straw.</p><p> </p><p>Now, he is living here again. The toll of a house payment, rent and three kids in college was just too much. I only agreed because I knew I could use my parent's place if I needed to, and there was an end in site when he would be moving out.</p><p> </p><p>I cannot imagine ever respecting, or even liking, this kid. The best I can offer right now is to keep my negative feelings underwraps and cohabitat</p><p>in the same house. Maybe some day I will be able to let go of the anger, the hurt and the fear. </p><p> </p><p>This whole Army thing is really getting to me. I know it's completely irrational and crazy, but it makes me nuts that this kids is going to be trusted to do the right thing and protect his fellow soliders. He has lied under oath in court more times than I can count, I can't imagine how he is going to B.S. his way thru boot camp.</p><p> </p><p>I think I may have PMS (in full perimenopause) and I am angry with husband for something stupid....could be why I'm needing to vent...ya think?!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hestiax3, post: 208960, member: 6242"] Thank you for the understanding words of encouragement. It's been such a trying and difficult 7 years. I have been completely disengaged for the past 3 years. I gave husband full responsibilty for SS. If husband was out of town and SS needed something or was in trouble, he knew not to even bother calling me. The year before he moved out was the worst year I could ever imagine with the constant violence, lying and stealing. We installed a deadbolt lock on our bedroom door because we were afraid to sleep with him in the house. His own mother would not even allow him in her home. The death threat was he final straw. Now, he is living here again. The toll of a house payment, rent and three kids in college was just too much. I only agreed because I knew I could use my parent's place if I needed to, and there was an end in site when he would be moving out. I cannot imagine ever respecting, or even liking, this kid. The best I can offer right now is to keep my negative feelings underwraps and cohabitat in the same house. Maybe some day I will be able to let go of the anger, the hurt and the fear. This whole Army thing is really getting to me. I know it's completely irrational and crazy, but it makes me nuts that this kids is going to be trusted to do the right thing and protect his fellow soliders. He has lied under oath in court more times than I can count, I can't imagine how he is going to B.S. his way thru boot camp. I think I may have PMS (in full perimenopause) and I am angry with husband for something stupid....could be why I'm needing to vent...ya think?!! [/QUOTE]
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