Oh, I am so sorry! He's a mess.
You've got the dual issues of biology and then drugs and alcohol during pregnancy.
Definitely, keep him on the medications. Forget about the future in military. You want him to focus on his life here and now or there may be no future. His behavior is over the top and dangerous.
You also have to somehow get him off of street drugs. with-my son, I literally followed him everywhere, took away all his electronics, and yes, called the police. That got his attention. So far, it has worked.
Fingers crossed that you can come up with-a plan that works.
I feel for you.
