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<blockquote data-quote="PonyGirl" data-source="post: 364680" data-attributes="member: 187"><p>Hey Dodd, just wanted to reach out to you and say, the fact that you can recognize some of what you're feeling as self-pity is a huge advantage in being able to turn those emotions around. Also wanted to say, please don't beat yourself up so much. Allow those feelings. Even the ones that are bad. Accept them, process them, and that will make it easier to let go of them. At least for me, I've found if I deny my feelings, it's harder to break the cycle. You are grieving the loss of the relationship with your sons. That's okay! Go ahead and grieve. Keep talking, keep being honest about how you feel, keep sharing at FA meetings. It will get better, I promise!!</p><p> </p><p>It really is a huge burden lifted, when we find we are NOT Alone. I'm so glad you found us, and to see that you're getting involved with support groups.</p><p> </p><p>Peace</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PonyGirl, post: 364680, member: 187"] Hey Dodd, just wanted to reach out to you and say, the fact that you can recognize some of what you're feeling as self-pity is a huge advantage in being able to turn those emotions around. Also wanted to say, please don't beat yourself up so much. Allow those feelings. Even the ones that are bad. Accept them, process them, and that will make it easier to let go of them. At least for me, I've found if I deny my feelings, it's harder to break the cycle. You are grieving the loss of the relationship with your sons. That's okay! Go ahead and grieve. Keep talking, keep being honest about how you feel, keep sharing at FA meetings. It will get better, I promise!! It really is a huge burden lifted, when we find we are NOT Alone. I'm so glad you found us, and to see that you're getting involved with support groups. Peace [/QUOTE]
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