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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 492964" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>LOTS of hugs. I don't know where you live, but if his girlfriend is 14 and he is 18 he CAN be ARRESTED for statutory rape and have to register as a SEX OFFENDER for the rest of his life. Not sure if Ostate refers to where you live or a sports affiliation or something else, but I have lived in OH and OK and know people in both state who wound up as LIFETIME sex offenders because their girlfriend was underage and they were not. Not a single one of them has even been able to get hired at MacDonalds and those are about the easiest jobs to get here.</p><p></p><p>I know hw may not beleive you, but if his girlfriend gets angry (and 14yo girls are known for emotional stability -NOT) or if her folks do, then he is in MAJOR trouble.</p><p></p><p>Have you considered putting limits on what he can/can't do to live in your home? Must have job working X hrs per week, curfew of 10:30 or 11 pm, certain grades, etc.....? If nothing else, find a cop to explain how his life will be RUINED if he has a girlfriend who is 14 and he gets caught. You don't get off the sex offender registries. EVER. And it CAN and WILL happen if she gets preg or angry at him - pretty much if she says they had sex and her folks say they foudn them having sex or a friend of the girl's corroborates it, then your son is DONE. </p><p></p><p>I hate to scare you, I know drugs and alcohol are awful, but you can get through rehab and people are a LOT more understanding about that than statutory rape and being on the sex offender registry. Can you, your husband, and your ex all get together on this to save your son? If it is true love then they will still be in love when they are legally able to be together, Know what I mean??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 492964, member: 1233"] LOTS of hugs. I don't know where you live, but if his girlfriend is 14 and he is 18 he CAN be ARRESTED for statutory rape and have to register as a SEX OFFENDER for the rest of his life. Not sure if Ostate refers to where you live or a sports affiliation or something else, but I have lived in OH and OK and know people in both state who wound up as LIFETIME sex offenders because their girlfriend was underage and they were not. Not a single one of them has even been able to get hired at MacDonalds and those are about the easiest jobs to get here. I know hw may not beleive you, but if his girlfriend gets angry (and 14yo girls are known for emotional stability -NOT) or if her folks do, then he is in MAJOR trouble. Have you considered putting limits on what he can/can't do to live in your home? Must have job working X hrs per week, curfew of 10:30 or 11 pm, certain grades, etc.....? If nothing else, find a cop to explain how his life will be RUINED if he has a girlfriend who is 14 and he gets caught. You don't get off the sex offender registries. EVER. And it CAN and WILL happen if she gets preg or angry at him - pretty much if she says they had sex and her folks say they foudn them having sex or a friend of the girl's corroborates it, then your son is DONE. I hate to scare you, I know drugs and alcohol are awful, but you can get through rehab and people are a LOT more understanding about that than statutory rape and being on the sex offender registry. Can you, your husband, and your ex all get together on this to save your son? If it is true love then they will still be in love when they are legally able to be together, Know what I mean?? [/QUOTE]
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