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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 46105" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Welcome to the board. Warm hugs and many prayers.</p><p></p><p>Detatchment 101:</p><p></p><p>God, grant me the serenity, to accept the things we cannot change</p><p>(our grown children)</p><p>The courage to change the things we can</p><p>(our reaction to our grown children)</p><p>And the wisdom to know the difference.</p><p></p><p>You only found the box for the test. You have no idea what the results were. It is unfortunate that she is not reachable at this point. This means she does not wish to be reached. She will call you when she is ready to talk.</p><p></p><p>You need to learn to be supportive to her when she needs it without bailing her out every time she needs money. If you do, she will continue to do it. She needs to learn some responsibility.</p><p></p><p>This is tough to hear. I just went through it with my older daughter. It is painful to send your child out to sink or swim. But tough love is still love. One day she will be ever so thankful to you for it.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting here with concerns or problems. You have found a wonderful, safe place to rest your weary head. Again, welcome.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 46105, member: 3647"] Welcome to the board. Warm hugs and many prayers. Detatchment 101: God, grant me the serenity, to accept the things we cannot change (our grown children) The courage to change the things we can (our reaction to our grown children) And the wisdom to know the difference. You only found the box for the test. You have no idea what the results were. It is unfortunate that she is not reachable at this point. This means she does not wish to be reached. She will call you when she is ready to talk. You need to learn to be supportive to her when she needs it without bailing her out every time she needs money. If you do, she will continue to do it. She needs to learn some responsibility. This is tough to hear. I just went through it with my older daughter. It is painful to send your child out to sink or swim. But tough love is still love. One day she will be ever so thankful to you for it. Keep posting here with concerns or problems. You have found a wonderful, safe place to rest your weary head. Again, welcome. [/QUOTE]
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