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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 369054"><p>I think there are two important reasons this system worked. One is that the response to behavior, both positive and negative was immediate. The other is it helped me a great deal to get my emotion and frustration out of the way. If he misbehaved I just took pennies away. I didn't negotiate it or say a lot about it. He didnt either.</p><p></p><p>It is well and good to say the rewards should not be material....but the most important thing is they need to be motivating to the child. In our case most of them were privileges he had had previously and now had to earn.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 369054"] I think there are two important reasons this system worked. One is that the response to behavior, both positive and negative was immediate. The other is it helped me a great deal to get my emotion and frustration out of the way. If he misbehaved I just took pennies away. I didn't negotiate it or say a lot about it. He didnt either. It is well and good to say the rewards should not be material....but the most important thing is they need to be motivating to the child. In our case most of them were privileges he had had previously and now had to earn. [/QUOTE]
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