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<blockquote data-quote="maxeygirls" data-source="post: 344775" data-attributes="member: 8869"><p>We've been investigated as well but not because of difficult child but because of an ER doctor when I first had her admitted into a biobehavioral unit who claimed that I either planned to or already had abused my children.</p><p>The CPS worker said the best thing I did was to have a sheet of paper with contact info for the pediatrician, friends and family, former doctors and anyone else who had witnessed the issues. I even had the number to the kids corner at my local grocery store and the manager (they'd witnessed her behavior at a reduced level and since I grew up here I spoke with them frequently). She called the doctors and grocery store within a day then picked one or two personal contacts, Im sure she believed she could get more truth and less emotion and loyalty from professional contacts. </p><p>I don't know if this would or wouldn't help in your situation but I do agree with everyone else that the more times difficult child tries this and the case is found in your favor, the less likely they are to take it seriously. I have a friend who has frequent dealings with CPS due to a runaway difficult child and neighbors who don't care for living with a screaming kid. She gave me the best advice at all when I called her in a panic; if you are innocent then treat them as an ally and be fully open. CPS is a normal occurence in her life and every time the process is shorter and shorter. </p><p>My thoughts are with you, stay strong!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="maxeygirls, post: 344775, member: 8869"] We've been investigated as well but not because of difficult child but because of an ER doctor when I first had her admitted into a biobehavioral unit who claimed that I either planned to or already had abused my children. The CPS worker said the best thing I did was to have a sheet of paper with contact info for the pediatrician, friends and family, former doctors and anyone else who had witnessed the issues. I even had the number to the kids corner at my local grocery store and the manager (they'd witnessed her behavior at a reduced level and since I grew up here I spoke with them frequently). She called the doctors and grocery store within a day then picked one or two personal contacts, Im sure she believed she could get more truth and less emotion and loyalty from professional contacts. I don't know if this would or wouldn't help in your situation but I do agree with everyone else that the more times difficult child tries this and the case is found in your favor, the less likely they are to take it seriously. I have a friend who has frequent dealings with CPS due to a runaway difficult child and neighbors who don't care for living with a screaming kid. She gave me the best advice at all when I called her in a panic; if you are innocent then treat them as an ally and be fully open. CPS is a normal occurence in her life and every time the process is shorter and shorter. My thoughts are with you, stay strong! [/QUOTE]
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