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<blockquote data-quote="DarkwingPsyduck" data-source="post: 688387" data-attributes="member: 20267"><p>A lot of times, they don't truly believe that you did something that needs their forgiveness. It is just so much easier to justify their actions by shifting the blame. It is deflection. If only they can convince themselves that it isn't them.... I am sorry you are having to deal with this. I would say to give it time. My twin sister has done the exact same thing. When she was first arrested in Reno, she tried to tell the judge that she was doing the things she did because my aunt and uncle were so bad to her. Now, I cannot stress enough how ridiculous that claim was, and she knew it was horse <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> when she said it. She did it to try to avoid accountability for her own poor choices. However, because of that, she is never able to live here with us when she isn't in jail. Judge believed her <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />, and is not going to sanction sending her back to such a hell hole, filled with rotten monsters like myself, my senior aunt and uncle, and her own child. Your daughter may be doing something similar to this. I wouldn't take it too personally. Though, my aunt did. It broke her heart. Had her in tears. It just pissed me and my uncle off, but deeply hurt my aunt who has done nothing but support her in every way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DarkwingPsyduck, post: 688387, member: 20267"] A lot of times, they don't truly believe that you did something that needs their forgiveness. It is just so much easier to justify their actions by shifting the blame. It is deflection. If only they can convince themselves that it isn't them.... I am sorry you are having to deal with this. I would say to give it time. My twin sister has done the exact same thing. When she was first arrested in Reno, she tried to tell the judge that she was doing the things she did because my aunt and uncle were so bad to her. Now, I cannot stress enough how ridiculous that claim was, and she knew it was horse :censored2: when she said it. She did it to try to avoid accountability for her own poor choices. However, because of that, she is never able to live here with us when she isn't in jail. Judge believed her :censored2:, and is not going to sanction sending her back to such a hell hole, filled with rotten monsters like myself, my senior aunt and uncle, and her own child. Your daughter may be doing something similar to this. I wouldn't take it too personally. Though, my aunt did. It broke her heart. Had her in tears. It just pissed me and my uncle off, but deeply hurt my aunt who has done nothing but support her in every way. [/QUOTE]
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