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Newbie-At the End of MY Rope!!
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 509242" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Welcome Sicktired you have found the right place to be soothed and comforted by others in the same unsteady boat. I am so very sorry you are going through this. My story is different, however, the heartbreak of having a child who brings such pain and anger is the same. You are being given wonderful advice from other Warrior parents who've been in your shoes, and sometimes just knowing someone '<em>out there</em>' truly understands your pain is enough to get you to the next step. </p><p></p><p> As others have mentioned, but bears repeating, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT, you didn't cause this, you cannot control it and you can't change it. He is now an adult and responsible for his actions and the consequences of those actions. My heart goes out to you and to your family, you are in a tough situation which stretches everyone to the max and offers little hope, I understand what that feels like. Your anger is absolutely justified, no apologies necessary, of course you're angry, and hurt and disappointed and frustrated and in so much pain. We know. Please take care of yourself, get support from others, be kind to yourself as you walk this strange and bumpy path, follow the good advice from those who've been in your shoes. God bless you and your family. We are all very glad you found this site. Hugs to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 509242, member: 13542"] Welcome Sicktired you have found the right place to be soothed and comforted by others in the same unsteady boat. I am so very sorry you are going through this. My story is different, however, the heartbreak of having a child who brings such pain and anger is the same. You are being given wonderful advice from other Warrior parents who've been in your shoes, and sometimes just knowing someone '[I]out there[/I]' truly understands your pain is enough to get you to the next step. As others have mentioned, but bears repeating, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT, you didn't cause this, you cannot control it and you can't change it. He is now an adult and responsible for his actions and the consequences of those actions. My heart goes out to you and to your family, you are in a tough situation which stretches everyone to the max and offers little hope, I understand what that feels like. Your anger is absolutely justified, no apologies necessary, of course you're angry, and hurt and disappointed and frustrated and in so much pain. We know. Please take care of yourself, get support from others, be kind to yourself as you walk this strange and bumpy path, follow the good advice from those who've been in your shoes. God bless you and your family. We are all very glad you found this site. Hugs to you. [/QUOTE]
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