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Newbie...desperate mom with 20 yo addict...court tomorrow
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<blockquote data-quote="Zardo" data-source="post: 578443" data-attributes="member: 12490"><p>My heart breaks for you. Hang in there and know that you are not the cause of his addictions and anger. You are trying to provide support and right the ship. I think you have a great plan for court - be brave and follow through. His behavior in the home in the meantime is a concern. I think you need to call 911 every time his anger gets out of control. Holes in the wall, destrpoyed property, aggresive anger that makes you feel unsafe - 911. Do not put yourself in harms way and do not take any more of his <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />. He is totally out of control and needs help. The more police calls on record, the more you are putting him in the hands of the court who are the only people right now that can force him to get the help he needs. He needs to find his bottom - if that means refusing help and going to jail for a bit until he gives in - so be it. He can no longer be allowed to be abusive and avoid life's responsibilities. I believe with his this out of control, he should not be living in your home. His choices are rehad, jail or the streets. Hopefully one of those things will help him find his way. You should focus on you and hand him over to the greater society where he will learn to see how out of control his behavior is.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Zardo, post: 578443, member: 12490"] My heart breaks for you. Hang in there and know that you are not the cause of his addictions and anger. You are trying to provide support and right the ship. I think you have a great plan for court - be brave and follow through. His behavior in the home in the meantime is a concern. I think you need to call 911 every time his anger gets out of control. Holes in the wall, destrpoyed property, aggresive anger that makes you feel unsafe - 911. Do not put yourself in harms way and do not take any more of his :censored2:. He is totally out of control and needs help. The more police calls on record, the more you are putting him in the hands of the court who are the only people right now that can force him to get the help he needs. He needs to find his bottom - if that means refusing help and going to jail for a bit until he gives in - so be it. He can no longer be allowed to be abusive and avoid life's responsibilities. I believe with his this out of control, he should not be living in your home. His choices are rehad, jail or the streets. Hopefully one of those things will help him find his way. You should focus on you and hand him over to the greater society where he will learn to see how out of control his behavior is. [/QUOTE]
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