Kuligraga-- try adding a signature, it's a way to sum up issues, diagnosis's and medications.
I have learned alot from this board, and it has been great for me. Sometimes (alot of the time) I just read other posts, and I know that I am not alone.
I would encourage you to take boy(s) to see a child psychiatrist, the one with a MD who can prescribe medications. It would be hard to do therapy with a child who will not tell the truth, in my humble opinion. Others will be along to give you better advice.