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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 87667" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Welcome to the board Mildred. :flower:</p><p></p><p>It's certainly nice to meet you.</p><p></p><p>I am wondering if this isn't defiance on difficult child's part. In your sig you have that difficult child has global developmental delays and mental retardation. Is it possible.....just tossing out an idea....that difficult child might not have full control over his anus sphynctor? Or that maybe it doesn't register in his brain that he needs to go til it is pretty much too late? Or maybe he's just not "getting" the idea? Especially with the sensory perception disorder tied in there too.</p><p></p><p>Regardless, I doubt seriously that spanking him over it is going to do any good. It might be that it's going to take him longer to get the idea than other kids due to all of his issues.</p><p></p><p>My son't problem was with urinating. For years he never had the normal urge to go, and never knew he HAD to go til he went a little in his pants.....then it was the mad dash to the bathroom. He wet his bed for years because there was no urge to wake up to go empty his bladder.</p><p></p><p>Once we discovered what the problem was, I stopped making a huge fuss over it. I just tried to help him get there in time, and we cleaned up the night messes quickly by dumping the sheets unceremoniously into the washer and him into the tub before school. Eventually the problem resoved itself.</p><p></p><p>Oh, just thought of something. My grandson had alot of trouble in the bowel dept. Turned out that he was having trouble distinguishing between gas and if he really needed to go. Poor kid had alot of painful gas so it was not easy for him to tell.</p><p></p><p>Others will be along I'm sure.</p><p></p><p>Again welcome. Glad you found us.</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 87667, member: 84"] Welcome to the board Mildred. [img]:flower:[/img] It's certainly nice to meet you. I am wondering if this isn't defiance on difficult child's part. In your sig you have that difficult child has global developmental delays and mental retardation. Is it possible.....just tossing out an idea....that difficult child might not have full control over his anus sphynctor? Or that maybe it doesn't register in his brain that he needs to go til it is pretty much too late? Or maybe he's just not "getting" the idea? Especially with the sensory perception disorder tied in there too. Regardless, I doubt seriously that spanking him over it is going to do any good. It might be that it's going to take him longer to get the idea than other kids due to all of his issues. My son't problem was with urinating. For years he never had the normal urge to go, and never knew he HAD to go til he went a little in his pants.....then it was the mad dash to the bathroom. He wet his bed for years because there was no urge to wake up to go empty his bladder. Once we discovered what the problem was, I stopped making a huge fuss over it. I just tried to help him get there in time, and we cleaned up the night messes quickly by dumping the sheets unceremoniously into the washer and him into the tub before school. Eventually the problem resoved itself. Oh, just thought of something. My grandson had alot of trouble in the bowel dept. Turned out that he was having trouble distinguishing between gas and if he really needed to go. Poor kid had alot of painful gas so it was not easy for him to tell. Others will be along I'm sure. Again welcome. Glad you found us. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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