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<blockquote data-quote="HeidiO" data-source="post: 123431" data-attributes="member: 4627"><p>well, quick update....just got off of phone with estranged difficult child, she won't be picking up her things tonight, her's friends parents won't let her stay with them. My baby is homeless...cuz b/f must have put a time line on staying with him. I let her know that all of her belongings are stacked in the garage, she might not want to leave too long because of mice (live in the country) and also I park my car in there and would like it back in asap. So we'll see on that one.</p><p>As for asking the b/f to help our cause, he says he supports us and admires how we parent our kids, but his actions don't back it up...he did help on her 18th birthday however, otherwise, she would have moved out 3 weeks prior. But he won't answer my phone calls, so I assume he's avoiding me thinking I'll rip into him about having my daughter sleeping at his apartment. Which I wouldn't do, he already knows how we feel and obviously hasn't respected it until now...</p><p>So for now, it's a waiting game, and I just hope and pray my daughter remains safe and figures it all out. But we are moving on at home, repainting her old room and shifting bedrooms with our other kids. (difficult child K had the largest, nicest bedroom)</p><p>So, if difficult child wants to come home, we'll have a 'Home rules contract' and she'll be in the bedroom right next to the master, and share our bathroom instead of having her own. Life's tough isn't it?</p><p>I am sad, hurt and love my daughter to pieces, but she has to live with her consequences.</p><p>Signing off for now!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HeidiO, post: 123431, member: 4627"] well, quick update....just got off of phone with estranged difficult child, she won't be picking up her things tonight, her's friends parents won't let her stay with them. My baby is homeless...cuz b/f must have put a time line on staying with him. I let her know that all of her belongings are stacked in the garage, she might not want to leave too long because of mice (live in the country) and also I park my car in there and would like it back in asap. So we'll see on that one. As for asking the b/f to help our cause, he says he supports us and admires how we parent our kids, but his actions don't back it up...he did help on her 18th birthday however, otherwise, she would have moved out 3 weeks prior. But he won't answer my phone calls, so I assume he's avoiding me thinking I'll rip into him about having my daughter sleeping at his apartment. Which I wouldn't do, he already knows how we feel and obviously hasn't respected it until now... So for now, it's a waiting game, and I just hope and pray my daughter remains safe and figures it all out. But we are moving on at home, repainting her old room and shifting bedrooms with our other kids. (difficult child K had the largest, nicest bedroom) So, if difficult child wants to come home, we'll have a 'Home rules contract' and she'll be in the bedroom right next to the master, and share our bathroom instead of having her own. Life's tough isn't it? I am sad, hurt and love my daughter to pieces, but she has to live with her consequences. Signing off for now! [/QUOTE]
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