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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 532721" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Welcome!</p><p></p><p>Yes, check into eviction laws and start issuing whatever notices need to be issued. The good news is that the 4 of them can all move in together.</p><p></p><p>In the meantime, you do not *have* to give anyone a ride anywhere. You feel you do because it's a displaced sense of parental obligation. Reality is that these ppl are all adults and need to start figuring these things out for themselves. I did live back home with my Dad for a while (early 20's) but NEVER did I ask him to drive me anywhere he wasn't already going - ie family, social functions.</p><p></p><p>Find your inner strength and DO NOT LET ANY ONE OF THEM TAKE MONEY FROM YOU EVER AGAIN. That is <strong>YOUR</strong> money. don't give any one of them a single penny from this moment on. Sorry, I'm coming off a bit strong, but they should be paying you rent. Are they at least helping out with household chores and yardwork? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?</p><p></p><p>Not any more. You are taking steps to kick your little birdies out of the nest. Time to don your <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/warriorsmiley.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":warriorsmiley:" title="warriorsmiley :warriorsmiley:" data-shortname=":warriorsmiley:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/warrior.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":warrior:" title="warrior :warrior:" data-shortname=":warrior:" /> (warrior armor) and go to battle with these childish adults.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 532721, member: 11965"] Welcome! Yes, check into eviction laws and start issuing whatever notices need to be issued. The good news is that the 4 of them can all move in together. In the meantime, you do not *have* to give anyone a ride anywhere. You feel you do because it's a displaced sense of parental obligation. Reality is that these ppl are all adults and need to start figuring these things out for themselves. I did live back home with my Dad for a while (early 20's) but NEVER did I ask him to drive me anywhere he wasn't already going - ie family, social functions. Find your inner strength and DO NOT LET ANY ONE OF THEM TAKE MONEY FROM YOU EVER AGAIN. That is [B]YOUR[/B] money. don't give any one of them a single penny from this moment on. Sorry, I'm coming off a bit strong, but they should be paying you rent. Are they at least helping out with household chores and yardwork? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm? Not any more. You are taking steps to kick your little birdies out of the nest. Time to don your :warriorsmiley::warrior: (warrior armor) and go to battle with these childish adults. [/QUOTE]
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