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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 282297" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hon, I think maybe her brother sexual abused her. Pulling down her pants and making her look at porn is a form of sexual abuse. I know this because we went through it and the sexual abuse expert/psychologist told us it is traumatic and sexual abuse. And he may have molested her as well. Even honest kids don't tell their closest adult trustmates about sexual abuse. I thought for sure my daughter would tell me--we were like fric and frac and she did not, she was too ashamed and thought it was her fault PLUS she was afraid of her abuser. He said he'd kill us all if she said a word, and he had hurt her so much that she believed him. And I believe he would have too if we hadn't made him leave the house. She should NOT visit her mother. Ever. Go to court on that and have her tell the Judge what has happened. Call CPS to back you up. Call CPS on this woman and her brother too. Don't tell her you are doing it because she is only ten and they made her feel guilty in the past. Just do it on your own or she will continued being tortured.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion she needs a therapist who is famliar with various types of abuse. She has gotten it from stepfather AND brother (I wouldn't allow this boy back in the house--let him stay with mom). Abuse experts are best for kids who have suffered from abuse. Believe it or not, many therapists don't "get" how abuse affects kids--and can't coax sexual abuse allegations out of kids. These traumatic experiences than cause all sorts of problems in the child's teen years and adult years and entire life unless they are resolved, poor girl.</p><p></p><p>Is she in any sort of treatment? You can call a Domestic Abuse shelter to get names of people who work with abused children. Although you and your hub did not abuse her, she was abused. And they will help you. (((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 282297, member: 1550"] Hon, I think maybe her brother sexual abused her. Pulling down her pants and making her look at porn is a form of sexual abuse. I know this because we went through it and the sexual abuse expert/psychologist told us it is traumatic and sexual abuse. And he may have molested her as well. Even honest kids don't tell their closest adult trustmates about sexual abuse. I thought for sure my daughter would tell me--we were like fric and frac and she did not, she was too ashamed and thought it was her fault PLUS she was afraid of her abuser. He said he'd kill us all if she said a word, and he had hurt her so much that she believed him. And I believe he would have too if we hadn't made him leave the house. She should NOT visit her mother. Ever. Go to court on that and have her tell the Judge what has happened. Call CPS to back you up. Call CPS on this woman and her brother too. Don't tell her you are doing it because she is only ten and they made her feel guilty in the past. Just do it on your own or she will continued being tortured. in my opinion she needs a therapist who is famliar with various types of abuse. She has gotten it from stepfather AND brother (I wouldn't allow this boy back in the house--let him stay with mom). Abuse experts are best for kids who have suffered from abuse. Believe it or not, many therapists don't "get" how abuse affects kids--and can't coax sexual abuse allegations out of kids. These traumatic experiences than cause all sorts of problems in the child's teen years and adult years and entire life unless they are resolved, poor girl. Is she in any sort of treatment? You can call a Domestic Abuse shelter to get names of people who work with abused children. Although you and your hub did not abuse her, she was abused. And they will help you. (((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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