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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 282676" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p></p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">&#8230;This sounds like my difficult child 2. He's almost 11.</span></span></span></em></strong></p><p> </p><p></p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">&#8230;difficult children biomom (BM) has a 'partying' problem&#8230; According to the kids.</span></span></span></em></strong></p><p> </p><p></p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">&#8230;You have the female version of my difficult child 2 on this. Does she interrupt a lot or talk incessantly about certain subjects? To the point of extreme boredom on your part? (But you listen anyway.) Does she chatter about these things with no clue that her listener may not be at all interested, even with obvious cues? (Yawning, eye-rolling, verbal 'can we talk about something else&#8230;')</span></span></span></em></strong></p><p> </p><p></p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">&#8230;difficult child 2 doesn't have mood swings either, not really. And it sounds like her BM is a lot like my kids' BM.</span></span></span></em></strong></p><p> </p><p></p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">&#8230;'Our' BM did this too. difficult child 2 told the school she punched him in the head, they reported it, she punished him worse&#8230; She called CPS on husband for something he actually did not do to difficult child 1, they talked to both kids, she grounded and whipped difficult child 2 for talking to them.</span></span></span></em></strong></p><p> </p><p></p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">&#8230;JUST TAKE IT? PLAYING?! OMG. I would say, PROTECTIVE ORDER ASAP! THIS IS GETTING <u>BORING</u>?!</span></span></span></em></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">It used to be that difficult child 1 would listen to nothing about her mother. We didn't talk bad about her, but out of the blue difficult child 1 would say stuff like, 'Stop bringing her into it!' when we hadn't. Then this past February difficult child 1 figured out what BM was really up to. She has refused to see her since. FLAT REFUSED. She asked me at one point, 'How could my own mother do this to me?' I had to tell her I didn't understand.</span></span></span></em></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">Be careful with coaching the poor kid on what to say. It can get held against you in court. However talk to her and ask her if it would help if she got to see her mom in a supervised setting, without the boyfriend and brother. Many areas have visitation centers run by the court.</span></span></span></em></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">I agree with a lot of others regarding the neuropsychologist evaluation&#8230; We're taking difficult child 2 this week. However, don't be surprised if you also discover PTSD in that. Because she has been through more than any little girl should have.</span></span></span></em></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">in my humble opinion " sexual abuse does not require penetration. If you can find a counselor that specializes in this, it will help a lot. A local DV hotline or Children's hospital can help with that.</span></span></span></em></strong></p><p> </p><p><strong><em><span style="color: #7030a0"><span style="font-family: 'Calibri'"><span style="font-size: 12px">{{{{{HUGS}}}}} I'm there with ya!</span></span></span></em></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 282676, member: 6705"] [SIZE=3][/SIZE] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]…This sounds like my difficult child 2. He's almost 11.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [SIZE=3][/SIZE] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]…difficult children biomom (BM) has a 'partying' problem… According to the kids.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [SIZE=3][/SIZE] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]…You have the female version of my difficult child 2 on this. Does she interrupt a lot or talk incessantly about certain subjects? To the point of extreme boredom on your part? (But you listen anyway.) Does she chatter about these things with no clue that her listener may not be at all interested, even with obvious cues? (Yawning, eye-rolling, verbal 'can we talk about something else…')[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]…difficult child 2 doesn't have mood swings either, not really. And it sounds like her BM is a lot like my kids' BM.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [SIZE=3][/SIZE] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]…'Our' BM did this too. difficult child 2 told the school she punched him in the head, they reported it, she punished him worse… She called CPS on husband for something he actually did not do to difficult child 1, they talked to both kids, she grounded and whipped difficult child 2 for talking to them.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [SIZE=3][/SIZE] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]…JUST TAKE IT? PLAYING?! OMG. I would say, PROTECTIVE ORDER ASAP! THIS IS GETTING [U]BORING[/U]?![/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]It used to be that difficult child 1 would listen to nothing about her mother. We didn't talk bad about her, but out of the blue difficult child 1 would say stuff like, 'Stop bringing her into it!' when we hadn't. Then this past February difficult child 1 figured out what BM was really up to. She has refused to see her since. FLAT REFUSED. She asked me at one point, 'How could my own mother do this to me?' I had to tell her I didn't understand.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]Be careful with coaching the poor kid on what to say. It can get held against you in court. However talk to her and ask her if it would help if she got to see her mom in a supervised setting, without the boyfriend and brother. Many areas have visitation centers run by the court.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]I agree with a lot of others regarding the neuropsychologist evaluation… We're taking difficult child 2 this week. However, don't be surprised if you also discover PTSD in that. Because she has been through more than any little girl should have.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]in my humble opinion " sexual abuse does not require penetration. If you can find a counselor that specializes in this, it will help a lot. A local DV hotline or Children's hospital can help with that.[/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [B][I][COLOR=#7030a0][FONT=Calibri][SIZE=3]{{{{{HUGS}}}}} I'm there with ya![/SIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/I][/B] [/QUOTE]
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