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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 282948" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>This is absolutely correct, it should always be about what's good for the kids. And this boy being allowed to get away with abuse isn't good for him either. But you can't stop that. You can keep daughter safe though. And if BM calls cops about missed visits? Again, have her tell cops she's afraid.</p><p> </p><p>Abused kids protect parents because they want that parent to love them. It's that simple, but getting the child to understand/admit that is a nightmare. You cannot make that happen. She seems to have already gotten glimpses of the light, so hopefully she will "get it" soon. difficult child 1 had it crash on her like a load of bricks in February and her behavior hasn't been perfect, but much better, since. But she still doesn't understand entirely how her own mother could be the way she is. She has asked me a few times why I love her more than BM does. I told her simply that she is the daughter of my heart. I make no excuses and give no reasons for BM's actions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 282948, member: 6705"] This is absolutely correct, it should always be about what's good for the kids. And this boy being allowed to get away with abuse isn't good for him either. But you can't stop that. You can keep daughter safe though. And if BM calls cops about missed visits? Again, have her tell cops she's afraid. Abused kids protect parents because they want that parent to love them. It's that simple, but getting the child to understand/admit that is a nightmare. You cannot make that happen. She seems to have already gotten glimpses of the light, so hopefully she will "get it" soon. difficult child 1 had it crash on her like a load of bricks in February and her behavior hasn't been perfect, but much better, since. But she still doesn't understand entirely how her own mother could be the way she is. She has asked me a few times why I love her more than BM does. I told her simply that she is the daughter of my heart. I make no excuses and give no reasons for BM's actions. [/QUOTE]
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