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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 283023" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Why didn't you tell CPS about the molestation? The license is BM's problem and son's problem. Who cares? The abuse of her daughter is the BIG problem and this young child needs to have you two step up for her. I wouldn't make her tell BM anything. I just wouldn't send her. In fact, I wouldn't have her talk to BM. And I wouldn't be thinking of ever sending her back. Have supervised visits with husband there. I wouldn't ever let her alone with those people. They aren't going to care about protecting her, they will absolve son from his henious wrongdoings, and daughter is too kindhearted and browbeaten not to still be nice (at least until she's an adult and the damage is too great for her to ignore it anymore--she could be hurt for life). Why didn't you mention the abuse of this child to them???? If daughter says, "Maybe I should tell mom I'll go over there" I would say, "I'm sorry, honey, but we love you and it's not safe to go over there. It's not YOUR decision. We are making a safety decision for you and you will not be allowed to go over there, even if she wants you to and even if you feel guilty." I don't think she should even be a part of the decision at her age. I'm baffled...(((Hugs))) I know this is hard.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 283023, member: 1550"] Why didn't you tell CPS about the molestation? The license is BM's problem and son's problem. Who cares? The abuse of her daughter is the BIG problem and this young child needs to have you two step up for her. I wouldn't make her tell BM anything. I just wouldn't send her. In fact, I wouldn't have her talk to BM. And I wouldn't be thinking of ever sending her back. Have supervised visits with husband there. I wouldn't ever let her alone with those people. They aren't going to care about protecting her, they will absolve son from his henious wrongdoings, and daughter is too kindhearted and browbeaten not to still be nice (at least until she's an adult and the damage is too great for her to ignore it anymore--she could be hurt for life). Why didn't you mention the abuse of this child to them???? If daughter says, "Maybe I should tell mom I'll go over there" I would say, "I'm sorry, honey, but we love you and it's not safe to go over there. It's not YOUR decision. We are making a safety decision for you and you will not be allowed to go over there, even if she wants you to and even if you feel guilty." I don't think she should even be a part of the decision at her age. I'm baffled...(((Hugs))) I know this is hard. [/QUOTE]
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