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Newbie--Recent ODD diagnosis
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<blockquote data-quote="Allan-Matlem" data-source="post: 349742" data-attributes="member: 10"><p>Hi and welcome ,</p><p></p><p>The books by Ross Greene include the explosive child - see <a href="http://thinkkids.org" target="_blank">http://thinkkids.org</a> and <a href="http://livesinthebalance.org" target="_blank">http://livesinthebalance.org</a></p><p>in my humble opinion the way to go is to improve your relationship with her focusing on chatting , perspective taking , identifying concerns and problem solving. There are plenty of tricks that make a kid look good but don't deal with the issues. Instead of trying to manipulate behavior with praise , rewards , consequences and so teach a kid what's in it for them I rather try by using questions help them reflect on their behavior , how their behavior impacts on others , good and bad and help them come up with a better plan . it is about we helping them to learn to trust us that we have their interests at heart and not just interested in getting them to do what we want. It is a process where the kid is learning vital life skills and we are building a trusting relationship. </p><p>Not easy , no magic bullet </p><p>Allan</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Allan-Matlem, post: 349742, member: 10"] Hi and welcome , The books by Ross Greene include the explosive child - see [url]http://thinkkids.org[/url] and [url]http://livesinthebalance.org[/url] in my humble opinion the way to go is to improve your relationship with her focusing on chatting , perspective taking , identifying concerns and problem solving. There are plenty of tricks that make a kid look good but don't deal with the issues. Instead of trying to manipulate behavior with praise , rewards , consequences and so teach a kid what's in it for them I rather try by using questions help them reflect on their behavior , how their behavior impacts on others , good and bad and help them come up with a better plan . it is about we helping them to learn to trust us that we have their interests at heart and not just interested in getting them to do what we want. It is a process where the kid is learning vital life skills and we are building a trusting relationship. Not easy , no magic bullet Allan [/QUOTE]
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