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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 631024" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Listen to the others RB, it's best to protect yourself. Be prepared for him to up the ante because that's what they do when boundaries are enforced. If this is the first time you're really enforcing a boundary in this fashion, as the others have said, be prepared for him to utilize any methods in his arsenal to keep you from kicking him out, threats, crying, rage, physical attacks, emotional blackmail, they are sometimes capable of some of the worst kinds of behaviors I have ever heard when they feel they are losing their safety net and their free ride. </p><p></p><p>Make sure you and your husband are ready for any assault he may conjure up. Be prepared to call the Sheriff if things escalate. Be prepared for the worst. If it doesn't happen, that's okay, but you won't be surprised by it.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there. Keep yourself well supported. Keep posting. Stay the course.............we're here if you need us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 631024, member: 13542"] Listen to the others RB, it's best to protect yourself. Be prepared for him to up the ante because that's what they do when boundaries are enforced. If this is the first time you're really enforcing a boundary in this fashion, as the others have said, be prepared for him to utilize any methods in his arsenal to keep you from kicking him out, threats, crying, rage, physical attacks, emotional blackmail, they are sometimes capable of some of the worst kinds of behaviors I have ever heard when they feel they are losing their safety net and their free ride. Make sure you and your husband are ready for any assault he may conjure up. Be prepared to call the Sheriff if things escalate. Be prepared for the worst. If it doesn't happen, that's okay, but you won't be surprised by it. Hang in there. Keep yourself well supported. Keep posting. Stay the course.............we're here if you need us. [/QUOTE]
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